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Gender Man
Age 50
Status Not single
Height 194cm
Weight 98kg
Body shape Athletic
Eye colour Blue
Hair length Short
Beard 5 o'clock shadow
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Body hair Some hair
Zodiac sign Cancer
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I sometimes feel I would have liked to be a Victorian governor with responsibility for my ward. Responsible for the care and development of a young lady, but also responsible for her discipline chastisement and deportment. Walking that line between beastly and benevolent, finding that sweet spot of cherishing a sub and yet keeping them in hand. A place of safety of sorts.

Desires and Fantasies
OK what I am really after is someone who will come out into the Welsh Forests with me or skulk around abandoned mine workings and get up to mischief.......... if I told you what mischief it would spoil the suspense

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Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in London with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!

BMBen
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  • 03.04.2018 20:10:35
  • Male (50)
  • London
  • Not single
BMBen
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  • 28.02.2018 22:14:25
  • Male (50)
  • London
  • Not single
BMBen
icon-wio BMBen created a topic in BDSM Forum
  • 30.01.2018 22:24:44
  • London
Urethral sounding
Has anyone tried urethral sounding? I was sent a video by a masochist friend suggesting that it might be a desirable M/f activity she’d like to indulge in but in the interest of sanity and safety I am keen to hear any do’s and dont’s. I can see it is quite an intimate act but seems to carry all manner of medical risks. All advice and opinion gratefully received.
Deleted profile I'm new to it. I just kinda stumbled on to it, but yeah...I'm hooked!! Safe and sterile....
I'm new to it. I just kinda stumbled on to it, but yeah...I'm hooked!! Safe and sterile....
Like 25.02.2020 7:46:37
KinkyKen4u2use
KinkyKen4u2use I love it I love it
Like · 15.04.2019 15:53:10
John842
John842 ➦John842 quote Deleted profile:❝Hi hun Yes I tried it about 4 months ago. It gave me the worst urine infection of my life lol. I did clean them hygienically but unfortunately I still got one. Maybe to deep. Quite a strange feeling. Not for me but you never no! Xx❞
Hi, may be (at first) a daft Read more… question, did you wear surgical gloves? Sterilize by (say) placing sounds in a pressure cooker @ 15 p.p.s.i for about 10 mins. I allow to cool to room temperature naturally. Remove wearing said gloves. I too gave myself the mother of ALL infections, hence my strong advise. Life is a college of accidents and learning.
Like · 24.09.2018 23:02:57
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BMBen
icon-wio BMBen wrote something in the forum
  • 30.01.2018 21:51:39
  • Male (50)
  • London
  • Not single
Are you curious..?

That made me giggle and I wouldn’t have said I am a giggled, thanks Firewitch!

BMBen
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  • 29.01.2018 14:25:07
  • Male (50)
  • London
  • Not single
BMBen
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  • 29.01.2018 14:23:06
  • Male (50)
  • London
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BMBen
icon-wio BMBen wrote something in the forum
  • 29.01.2018 11:22:14
  • Male (50)
  • London
  • Not single
Vanilla girl brand new to any and all kinks; where the hell do I start?

Here is where you start, make friends explore questions, share fantasies and find someone to help you grow. I have to say the chatrooms are the warmest I know of.
Another thought is finding your nearest "munch", a place to meet folk in a vanilla setting. It helps to filter the strange ones from Read more… the stranger ones.

BMBen
icon-wio BMBen has updated their profile description
  • 29.01.2018 10:32:59
  • Male (50)
  • London
  • Not single
I sometimes feel I would have liked to be a Victorian governor with responsibility for my ward. Responsible for the care and development of a young lady, but also responsible for her discipline chastisement and deportment. Walking that line between beastly and benevolent, finding that sweet spot Read more… of cherishing a sub and yet keeping them in hand. A place of safety of sorts.
BMBen
icon-wio BMBen is no longer single
  • 25.01.2018 22:43:13
  • Male (50)
  • London
  • Not single
BMBen
icon-wio BMBen has updated their profile description
  • 25.01.2018 22:43:12
  • Male (50)
  • London
  • Not single
Oh this box is always too hard.... I am practicing being simply me.

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