About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Networking
- BDSM Lovers
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Hadiytha with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
Problems with being submissive?
Hello guys. I'm 20y old, male, and straight. Since I was a kid, I had many fetishes and I liked being submissive. I have foot fetish, trample fetish, I like being slapped by a woman, facesitting, spit fetish. I many normal relationships and only one with a dominant woman. She liked rough sex and Read more…she had a crazy libido. She was riding my face all day, she was sleeping with her feet on my face, I cleaned all her body with my tongue when she was sweaty, some days she trampled me and danced on me, It was a dream.
But the problem started when she begins to abuse be verbally and physically when we weren't in bed (I tried her to stop because I don't like that when I saw that but she insisted she likes that very much) then one day, when I was with my homies, she called me "her bitch", and tried to slap me but I catched her hand at the right time. It made me angry and nervous and I pushed her away. I abstained to not hit her, and I ended screaming at her. After that, we broke up
I'm not that typical submissive guy. I have an aggressive behavior towards men and women whey they try to tell me what to do and to control me. I got involved in many fights during my life, I got expelled 3 times from school because I beat some guys. I'm also doing bodybuilding. I like feminine women. But I like being a slave in bedroom. Only in bedroom. But when we're not in bedroom, If a woman is trying to show me who's the boss, screaming at me or insult me, I can't stand that. It's pissing me off to the point where I can become violent. And the problem is, the majority of the dominant girls are dominant in the daily life too. With all other girls I have dated, it was very simple. Some feet massage, kiss their feet sometimes (they knew I had a foot fetish, but they didn't like the idea of trampling or gagging me), and a lot of pussy eating. Nothing special. I was not that satisfied in bed, but I had great relationship with them. I wanna get married till I hit 30' too.
I don't know what to do. I like BDSM and rough sex, but if she tryna dominate me in other place than bed, it will be not okay. I like a a basic relationship, but I don't wanna cheat on my girlfriend because I'm not enough satisfied. Any advices?
But the problem started when she begins to abuse be verbally and physically when we weren't in bed (I tried her to stop because I don't like that when I saw that but she insisted she likes that very much) then one day, when I was with my homies, she called me "her bitch", and tried to slap me but I catched her hand at the right time. It made me angry and nervous and I pushed her away. I abstained to not hit her, and I ended screaming at her. After that, we broke up
I'm not that typical submissive guy. I have an aggressive behavior towards men and women whey they try to tell me what to do and to control me. I got involved in many fights during my life, I got expelled 3 times from school because I beat some guys. I'm also doing bodybuilding. I like feminine women. But I like being a slave in bedroom. Only in bedroom. But when we're not in bedroom, If a woman is trying to show me who's the boss, screaming at me or insult me, I can't stand that. It's pissing me off to the point where I can become violent. And the problem is, the majority of the dominant girls are dominant in the daily life too. With all other girls I have dated, it was very simple. Some feet massage, kiss their feet sometimes (they knew I had a foot fetish, but they didn't like the idea of trampling or gagging me), and a lot of pussy eating. Nothing special. I was not that satisfied in bed, but I had great relationship with them. I wanna get married till I hit 30' too.
I don't know what to do. I like BDSM and rough sex, but if she tryna dominate me in other place than bed, it will be not okay. I like a a basic relationship, but I don't wanna cheat on my girlfriend because I'm not enough satisfied. Any advices?
You need to not put your hands on anyone in anger. Putting your hands on her in anger is not love its abuse. She shouldn't put her hands on you in anger it's abuse. Neither one of you should put up with I. This lifestyle is not about abuse it about understanding. The only way to understanding is communication.
I am primarily a sub / bottom in the bedroom, but day to day Vanilla and Dominant when I have to be, but, when I'm around someone that is naturally Dominant by nature, I automatically take the submissive role to a point.
I think for me it stems from Read more… living alone for so long so only myself to rely on, but if I found a lady I was really happy with and we were living together as a couple, and she happened to be Dominant both in and out of the bedroom, I feel after a bit of time once I knew I could really trust her on that kind of level, I would happily go submissive 24-7.
For me personally: submission in the bedroom is a kind of stress release, to be pushed so far that I release all my emotions till I'm totally numb inside.
To live it outside the bedroom I would need an emotional connection far deeper than any normal relationship could provide, but if it was there, I'd happily go for it.