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New to BDSM- how to separate sexual Trauma?
I know from what I’ve read that someone with past sexual trauma should not even explore BDSM with partner.
my question is for those that have trauma similar to this how did you progress from not letting it affect BDSM acts with your partner.
i have a partner that I feel safe, trust and loved while we do this but she is afraid that trauma could be dangerous in this type of sexual act.
my question is for those that have trauma similar to this how did you progress from not letting it affect BDSM acts with your partner.
i have a partner that I feel safe, trust and loved while we do this but she is afraid that trauma could be dangerous in this type of sexual act.
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GenesisZ79 Also, I know plenty of humans who did NOT experience trauma and are very into BDSM. Also, I know plenty of humans who did NOT experience trauma and are very into BDSM.
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· 22.02.2023 20:26:52
GenesisZ79 @matttster 1000% I can confirm this is true of me also—with a history of early childhood sexual and physical abuse. @matttster 1000% I can confirm this is true of me also—with a history of early childhood sexual and physical abuse.
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· 22.02.2023 20:23:19
arnhem961 @MistressEcho You mention trauma and having issues with being touched. Having 'control' over subs empowers you, as you say "they are aware it is an issue". Excuse me if I'm too forward asking this, but how open are you with your subs on the reason behind the importance of the rules? Is it just an Read more… in-character "don't touch me" rule, or did you trust them enough to open up about your past trauma and they responded understandingly? If the latter, I wonder if and how cathartic this has been for your, personally? Not only knowing they won't touch, but them also realizing your trauma and having the respect and love to support you in that?
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· 19.02.2023 22:34:53
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