I’m from Germany and visit Japan at least once a year.

I’m looking for something serious and rather unusual: a long-term relationship with a woman who is genuinely interested in a consensual 24/7 TPE dynamic.

I’m not looking for ***nt submission from a stranger. Chemistry and trust come first. The dynamic can grow naturally from there.

I’m predominantly dominant, but not completely fixed in that role. I also enjoy occasionally letting go of control and allowing myself to be a little submissive when the trust and chemistry are right. I’m not looking for a fully switch-style dynamic, but I do like the idea that intimacy can sometimes include that kind of reversal without changing the overall structure of the relationship.

Since I live in Germany, I’m ideally looking for someone in Japan who could imagine moving to Germany eventually if the relationship becomes serious. I visit Japan regularly, so I’d much rather meet properly, spend time together and see where things go than rush anything online.

Outside of BDSM, I’m looking for a real partner: someone I can laugh with, travel with, spend quiet evenings with and build a life together.