I’m the friend who’ll confidently pick the restaurant, plan the night, and still check that everyone’s having a good time. Turns out, that decisive side of me also shows up in kink. I like taking charge, but I’m not here to run a boot camp. The best dynamic has trust, a bit of tension, and enough comfort that we can be real with each other. I’m an entrepreneur, so my days can be a little all-over-the-place. I’m much more into finding a rhythm with someone than pretending I have a perfectly scheduled lifestyle.

Some things are just not for me: broken skin, ***, permanent marks, serious *** risks, or anything that restricts breathing or puts pressure on the throat. I also only play when we’re both sober and fully present. Those aren’t “maybe someday” limits... they’re just my limits.