About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- NSA (no strings...)
- BDSM Lovers
Description
I am a (mostly) retired software engineer and semiprofessional cellist living in the Washington DC area, even if the site insists on showing the location I'm in when traveling. I'm a polyamorous switch leaning submissive. I'm also a science fiction fan and lover of good food and wine.
I have long-distance partners in Pittsburgh and Atlanta, though of course the distance limits the time we can spend together. I am thrilled to be able to update this profile to say that through this site I have now found an amazing woman in the local area who matches up with not just my sexual interests, but vanilla interests as well - and is happily talking to my long-distance partners. The Atlanta partner has plans to move up here, hopefully by spring 2026.
Limits
Cryptocurrency scamming
Ballbusting
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Abandonment Play
- Inflatable Gag
- Ball Gag
- Bondage Body Bags (Active)
- Bondage
- Bondage Hood
- Bondage Mouthguard Gag
- Bondage Rope
- Bondage Sleepsack
- Elbow Harness
- Extreme Bondage
- Gags
- Torturer - Captive Prisoner
- Heterosexual
- Armbinder
- Muzzle Gag
- Nipples
- Penis Gag
- Plastic Wrap
- Plus-Size Women
- Polyamory
- Sensory Deprivation
- Vacuum Beds
- Straitjackets
Wanna know what interests me?:
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Arlington with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
I have Read more… long-distance partners in Pittsburgh and Atlanta, though of course the distance limits the time we can spend together. I am thrilled to be able to update this profile to say that through this site I have now found an amazing woman in the local area who matches up with not just my sexual interests, but vanilla interests as well - and is happily talking to my long-distance partners. The Atlanta partner has plans to move up here, hopefully by spring 2026.
[Re: very beautiful women being on this site] I once had a coworker who complained about guys not asking her out. She was stunning. I told her that she may well intimidate guys into thinking that they're just not in her league, so they figure they shouldn't even bother trying. I advised her to be Read more… the one to make the first move if she saw a guy that interested her.
This is no longer a reliable indicator. People can keep their cell phone number no matter where they move in the country. It is completely possible for a person in NY to have a cell number from Los Angeles that they got when living there ten years ago, and kept because that's the number all their Read more… friends and relatives know.
7. Clearly not a native speaker of English despite claiming US or UK origin. Common errors: "I will love [like] to" instead of "I would love [like] to"; "I am seeking for" instead of "looking for" or just "seeking". Presumably, this red flag also goes for errors in other languages claimed as their Read more… native language.
Ballbusting
Finding the icon from the third clue depends on at least one other user interacting with you in a particular way, but there are other conditions that need to be met in addition. First, your filters need to be set correctly. Even after that, you may need to use the app to find this one, because the Read more… app and the browser versions have different behaviors. I have just interacted with your profile in the way that is needed, but you might not find the icon if your filters are set in a way that keeps what I did from coming to your attention.
I have always been attracted to taller women, not that I haven't had relationships with shorter ones. I'm a switch leaning to the submissive side, so the height differential adds to the psychological power dynamic. I have a long-distance relationship with a woman who is 6'3" and a top.
I also like Read more… plus-sized women. Again, it's not a fetish such that I am attracted to them exclusively. But I like feeling the weight of a large partner lying on top of me, and the feel of a soft plump body pressed against mine. Sex is, after all, a tactile pleasure.
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