I am a (mostly) retired software engineer and semiprofessional cellist living in the Washington DC area, even if the site insists on showing the location I'm in when traveling. I'm a polyamorous switch leaning submissive. I'm also a science fiction fan and lover of good food and wine.

I have long-distance partners in Pittsburgh and Atlanta, though of course the distance limits the time we can spend together. I am thrilled to be able to update this profile to say that through this site I have now found an amazing woman in the local area who matches up with not just my sexual interests, but vanilla interests as well - and is happily talking to my long-distance partners. The Atlanta partner has plans to move up here, hopefully by late fall of 2026.

Please see the "Looking for" section of my profile before contacting.

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