A thought on cybersex.
I often read in many profiles people that are explicitly not seeking cybersex with anyone. While I understand that for many if not most of us here the goal is to actually meet like minded partners and experience the pleasure (or pain).
With that said I think it's limiting to Read more…exclude or dismiss something that can be as enjoyable as cybersex. For people still getting to know each other it's a fun and quick litmus test to see who can hold a stimulating conversation, and for those at any level of commitment or longevity it is an exciting way to spice up otherwise mundane workdays, made all the easier with texts and other social apps. The excitement needn't be sharing pictures either, though an illustration can help a story. Rather, one only needs a decent grasp of their language and an imagination to spice up someone's afternoon. It's exciting to catch yourself daydreaming about the fantasy scenario unfolding in your text box while trying to go about the work day, stealing peeks at the phone. Ideally you eventually get together with that person and flesh out that story, that night if possible, but until or if that time comes, cybersex is a fun and exciting way to keep each others juices flowing.