I’m starting a new life in more ways than one.

I don’t fully know what I want from this space or this type of life. Yet I am interested to experience this space and life in all of its complexities on my way to finding out how I want to live.

The responses and interactions here confuse me. Along with some of the terminology.

If you want to talk I would like to talk to you.
If you approach me, in any way, I’ll probably ask you to talk.
If you pop up in my feed, I’ll probably ask you if you want to talk.
If things move on from there they move on, if not, then not.

NO means NO.
It is a complete sentence and a good answer.
Don’t be afraid to use it. I won’t.

I may like your posts. I probably won’t directly comment on them, because I find many of the comments disturbing.

I will comment on the message boards and may write for myself from time to time.

I will rarely post pictures of myself and never unclothed. (We will see what that short absolute statement gets me in the future.)

If you breach one of my boundaries I’ll let you know.

If I breach your boundaries it was probably unintentional especially when we are in the early stages. If it can be corrected let me try. Tell me to stop, get away, or ask me to leave if necessary.

Honesty and openness are important to me.

I don’t want to play word or mind games that go no where.

Games that involve my body or your’s must have limits, rules, and boundaries. Those limits will be established before our play/scene starts.

If we start something and you want me to go I’ll go. While wishing you a good life.

Remember

You are in control of your life, you as I am in control of mine.

No matter the position or role you or I take the decision was made and you have the final say as to where it goes, as do I.

I’m not here to judge or to be judged, nor will I accept your judgement. I will strive to not judge you.

I wish each of you the freedom, ability, and desire to live a good life.

I wish everyone the freedom to find their own way and the courage to make the needed changes in their own life, as I will I make changes in mine.

In closing.

Talk to me and we might find we have similar or intersecting interests.

I am interested in expanding my experiences on both sides of what ever line you and I agree to draw.

I have been interested in kink all of my life and so far I’ve only been able to indulge by myself. I am interested in changing that. I am looking for mentors, partners, guides, and friends.

I am a serious introvert. Alone I’m good. Talking to a single person I’m okay. At three I start to withdraw more than that turns me into an observer. I can survive groups if minimal interaction is required. I can also be in front of a group fairly comfortably depending on the type of interaction that is required.

I do have some trust issues. Conversations are conversations. Discussions on scenes, fantasies, and boundaries are just that. While they will fit into a conversation, I won’t start and you shouldn’t start that type of conversation without establishing trust and a mutual agreement first.

Trying to find out what my limits are. Interested in BDSM, sensations and interesting experience’s.

Talk to me and we might find we have similar or intersecting interests.