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Arousal from BDSM vs normal sex
Thanks for the replies everyone.
I have had discussions with my partner about this and she's been very understanding and open. She even said she'd be up for experimenting.
However, neither of us has any experience with this kind of play whatsoever. I'd also want to experiment as much as possible Read more… to find out what we both like.
If anyone has any tips on how to get started and how to make the most out of experimenting, it would be greatly appreciated.
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Arousal from BDSM vs normal sex
The only type of porn that's ever interested me has been BDSM & related. I never really found vanilla/"straightforward" porn intriguing, but usually get great arousal from BDSM content.
I should also mention that I started my sex life at a pretty late age.
At the moment I find it tricky to Read more…get aroused by my partner when we have sex.
At first I thought it could be because I inadvertently conditioned myself to only be aroused by BDSM content. When we are intimate, I often find my mind racing to whatever BDSM scenario is at hand in my imagination, and that's what gets me hard.
I have to say that the scenarios I imagine don't really feature me at all, they are more like movie scenes. It's not a cuckold situation, I simply don't exist in these scenarios.
Anyway, after more introspection, I started thinking that maybe I have a low libido. I do find myself aroused by women very often, but I never feel the need/urge to fuck them. Like with my partner, I do find her attractive, but when were intimate, for me it's not really exciting or something I look forward to.
Has anyone had similar experiences? Does anyone know what's up?
I wanna keep this text brief, but happy to give more details if anyone has any specific questions.
Thanks!
I should also mention that I started my sex life at a pretty late age.
At the moment I find it tricky to Read more…get aroused by my partner when we have sex.
At first I thought it could be because I inadvertently conditioned myself to only be aroused by BDSM content. When we are intimate, I often find my mind racing to whatever BDSM scenario is at hand in my imagination, and that's what gets me hard.
I have to say that the scenarios I imagine don't really feature me at all, they are more like movie scenes. It's not a cuckold situation, I simply don't exist in these scenarios.
Anyway, after more introspection, I started thinking that maybe I have a low libido. I do find myself aroused by women very often, but I never feel the need/urge to fuck them. Like with my partner, I do find her attractive, but when were intimate, for me it's not really exciting or something I look forward to.
Has anyone had similar experiences? Does anyone know what's up?
I wanna keep this text brief, but happy to give more details if anyone has any specific questions.
Thanks!
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well, whatever scenes you are watching or already fantasising about
research how to do, or build to, those for experimenting...
well, whatever scenes you are watching or already fantasising about
research how to do, or build to, those
I have had discussions with my partner about this and she's been very understanding and open. She even said she'd be up for experimenting.
However, neither of us has any experience with this kind of play whatsoever. I'd also want to experiment as much as possible to find out what we both like.
If anyone has any tips on how to get started and how to make the most out of experimenting, it would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for the replies everyone.
I have had discussions with my partner about this and she's been very understanding and open. She even said she'd be up for experimenting.
However, neither of us has any experience with this kind of play whatsoever. I'd also want to experiment as much as possible to find out what we both like.
If anyone has any tips on how to get started and how to make the most out of experimenting, it would be greatly appreciated.