Looking for a dominate male or female to play with. I'm an extreme sub into really extreme CBT and more. I've written a little (ok, a lot!) about myself below. My wife and I have been married for 20+ years and are active in sexually alternative lifestyles, mainly swinging. I would NEVER play without her approval...mainly because it's soooo easy to get!

If you find you have an interest, please contact me (or us...we play well together too!). Currently looking for a qualified local area Dominate to be used as a service slave & s&m toy.

While my wife of 30 years and I have played in the alternative lifestyles since we met each other, she has decide not to participate actively at this time. She does not have a problem with me doing so...yeah I know a lot of guys say that, but I’m really do have her blessings. If you have a problem with it, I will gladly introduce you to her and y’all can privately work out an understanding. Trust me, I would much rather have her playing too, but it’s a decision she came o a ....loooong 18 months ago. It is what it is, but I still enjoy doing it AND I’m a damn good sub/slave!

My story:
As far back as I can remember, I have always fantasized about extreme submission. Submission that is gained by intense physical stimulation (some might call this ***) coupled with ***ness, *** and ultimately a realization that I am completely incapable of controlling, preventing or changing what is happening or what will happen to me. I hope you understand where I am coming from here. The first time I experienced this in real life was about 15 fyears ago. It was like a drug and I was an addict the first time I took it!

My wife and I had a girlfriend who had been a porn-star, and at the time was a headline exotic dancer. She knew my desires to be dominated, and one day she tied me down and well let's say she went "ape-shit" on me! I really didn't know what she was going to do next, but I did know that it scared the fuck out of me. You gotta understand that this girl was constantly getting in trouble, sometimes with the law, because she would act without considering the consequences of what she was doing, until after she did it and was reflecting on it, or in a few cases was running from the sheriff.

At one point, she had grabbed a set of tree pruning shears and had my dick locked in the jaws. Judging from the look on her face and the glare in her eyes and the base of my cock throbbing sticking out between the curved blades of the shears! I really and truly thought that I would loose my cock that night! She had me stretched out so tight on the floor, cuffed with D-ring leather cuffs that were padlocked on that there was no way I was stopping whatever she wanted to do. ***, anxiety and..... at THAT moment I realized that I had never in my life ever been that turned-on!

Proper Disclosure: I guess I didn’t originally describe the verbal conversation the porn star and I had…but reading back over this, it really should be added because the exchange is what firmly set the subspace experience that was to come in stone! The point this all began, my wife & her had decided to go to a gentlemen’s club. This decision was made as they talked about it using my bound ass as a throw pillow, casually laying across my naked bound body. Once they knew what the agenda was for the night, my wife got up to leave the room to take a shower & get ready for the evening. It was like a blur with a flash of light as soon as the door closed behind my wife…like a single fluid motion this crazy, but extremely sexy lady somehow was laying with her huge breast forcing the air from my chest and managed to obtain the pruning shears gripping each handle with a tight fist….her right arm was cocked with her elbow out from her body, her arms trembling from the muscles being held back but ready….of course my cock between those sharp curved blades…the base halfway flattened in its jaws…..I still can’t explain how, but there we were. Her lips brushing against my cheek, splitting as she growled these words at me….mouth to mouth…” you mother fuckers are all alike aren’t you! You take everything from us then….you throw us out!….you’re not gonna…give me a reason I shouldn’t…tell me mother fucker!” …closing the jaws a little tighter…. I couldn’t utter a word. Just accepted the situation. But damn, I was hooked on subspace and wouldn’t know what was actually happening in my mind for several months until I was talking with a Dom about the experience!…..

Suddenly, the *** was gone, even the stinging *** from the base of my cock was gone and a very odd calm came across my whole body. Mentally I realized that I could not prevent what was going on and almost ***ntly accepted the situation. She could've closed those shears...but she didn't.

I was hooked! Since then, there have been probably 3 or 4 times that I've been to that state of mind. Twice with my wife, but let me tell ya it takes a lot, but not too much tequila to get my wife to the point of really dominating me.

BiSexual?
I discovered (surprise!) that I only had a desire to service someone else. Never wanted anyone to get me off. Ultimately I figured out that what I REALLY wanted was to be used. My primary desire is to be ***d to service. Well it's kinda hard to get this type of scene from someone you don't know. I may have a really far out there sex drive, but I'm not a complete idiot! Letting a complete stranger tie you up and fuck you can quickly lead to your death! So it's pretty much remained a fantasy when it comes to a male and complete domination.

My wife did have me bound once and told me to suck a guy she was going to have sex with. but again that was about 6 years ago. My wife and I slept with a another married couple last year, he fucked the shit out of her for an hour without a condom. As soon as they left, my wife made me lick her clean, and told me not to loose a drop! THAT really freakin' turns me on too!

I can also do some amazingly impressive hardcore CBT stunt, you would think my balls were attached with steel cables or something!

Other sites I go by Cuck2bCut … my wife came up with that one. It’s fitting.

Other than that...I guess I'm just a regular guy! (LMAO!!)

No kids or under 30. No ***. Anything else is limited only by your own limits…