Very well written!

First let me say, I am pleasantly suprised by all the positivity and support on this forum! (I'm originally from Minnesota, so not used to that!)
More importantly, Girl, I've had 2 kids, my entire middle is stretch marks, tits to thighs. My x said the pattern looks like tree bark, I just go with Read more… it. We can start a sexy tree friends club lol! If it bothers you, though, that is still a valid feeling, sex is no fun when we feel less than. Maybe do something fun and different somewhere else on your body, you know, change the focus. Try a wild hair color, get that tattoo you've always wanted, have your makeup done & get a new pallette. You are the only one you need to please! When a lady is feeling sexy, man watch out!

Damn. I wish I came that easily! Reminds me of a lyric:
"You dont want (me) to leave so I can tell that youre not used to coming"~ Call me Karisma
from "Nails"

Will you be content with being in the friend zone, or will it grow into resentment for her or her husband? If you can handle it, keep it to yourself. If it becomes too ***ful to spend time with her and you feel like you must distance, tell her the reason why so she isn't left wondering forever.

So many great points being made here, and I'm a little impresed by that from a kink site! At any rate, I agree with Tenacity, replies I get describing their ideal BJ are a hard pass, no pun intended. I've lowered my expectations to honesty only, and that is about a honest as it gets lol. Been in Read more… relationship recovery for about 5 years now.. That doesn't mean I'm asexual, or jaded, just more aware of intentions. IDK what you do on your time, but there WILL be a MUTUAL respect when you're fucking w/me, no matter how well you tie me down😂😍 AITA?