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Gender Man
Age 27
Status Single
Height 177cm
Weight 160kg
Body shape Average build
Sexual position Bottom
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Long
Beard Shaved/no beard
Orientation Bisexual
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin USA
Pubic Hair Natural
Body hair Some hair
Zodiac sign Virgo
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

I’m looking for:

Description

Shy but thoughtful individual who is looking to explore my submissive cravings to a feminine figure ?


Desires and Fantasies
To be utterly dominated and humiliated in a sexual way by a feminine figure ??? just the thought of someone telling me what to do and using me at their playful whim has had me horny for years ?

If I could incorporate my love of acting Little and girly into the equation, I think it would be heaven on Earth ?

My roles & archetype

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DandyAndy
icon-wio DandyAndy wrote something about themself
  • 09.01.2020 4:35:17
  • Male (27)
  • Rochester
  • Single
Shy but thoughtful individual who is looking to explore my submissive cravings to a feminine figure ?
DandyAndy
icon-wio DandyAndy wrote something in the forum
  • 07.01.2020 22:45:34
  • Male (27)
  • Rochester
  • Single
MUSIC makes me want to get KINKY.

If I'm age playing by myself and decide to get a bit kinky, I will put on some typically lyric-less music, such as video game soundtracks or some classical music. I'll find myself strung along to the movement of the music, seamlessly enjoying each moment with little interruption, much as when I Read more… was younger playing with toys or video games.

DandyAndy
icon-wio DandyAndy wrote something in the forum
  • 07.01.2020 22:38:28
  • Male (27)
  • Rochester
  • Single
weirdest place you have had sex

Out in the woods right off a canal path, right as it was getting dark. The girl I was with and I just couldn't wait, so we scouted out a spot she bent herself over a tree.
There was also one time we were at my parents house and for some reason had the only option for sex to be the bathroom. Not Read more… that that's a horrible idea, but mind you this bathroom was very tight with space. She ended up lying on the floor on top of some towels, but it was by far the most uncomfortable place I've ever had sex of any kind in, lmao. We didn't finish.

DandyAndy
icon-wio DandyAndy wrote something in the forum
  • 07.01.2020 0:48:56
  • Male (27)
  • Rochester
  • Single
How do I communicate about my fetishes non-awkwardly (shy person, new)

Either! I am like many of my friends, unable to tell if I'm being hit on (or if I'm displaying signs of hitting on someone ).
Thank you both for welcoming me and recognizing my discomfort, I am quite happy to be taking a step here as well :)

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  • 06.01.2020 1:51:44
  • Male (27)
  • Rochester
  • Single
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DandyAndy
icon-wio DandyAndy created a topic in New to BDSM, Kink & Fetish?
How do I communicate about my fetishes non-awkwardly (shy person, new)
Hello c: thank you all for participating in this website. I am a little hopeful it can help me on my way towards being more comfortable about myself.
I have always had fantasies about having a more submissive role in a sexual relationship, and ever since I was little wearing diapers has always been Read more…appealing, of which I attribute to my ABDL fetishes. However, I am horribly horribly shy and afraid to talk to most people about anything, let alone implying a sexual interest to someone. Imagine how it is trying to communicate my fetishes! I have always been uncomfortable revealing my submissive and feminine side to the world, and I am distressed and often in fear and worry that I'll never be able to find anyone to share my sexual desires with.
But I understand that last point isn't going to be an overnight achievement, so I ask to everyone: has anyone else felt similar? What goes through your head when talking to someone openly about your fetishes? How do you look for signs that sexual interest is being pointed towards you?
Looking forward to your replies. Thanks everyone <3
LikeVandalslut · 6 Replies
BigPolly
BigPolly ➦BigPolly quote DandyAndy:❝Thank you both for welcoming me and recognizing my discomfort, I am quite happy to be taking a step here as well :)❞
You are not alone, most of us feel uncomfortable or awkward at times. I am loud & say what I think & appear to have bags of confidence but inside Read more… I’m an extremely anxious person. I’m comfortable in my own skin & within my own kinks but I struggle with some social situations. Also if I find someone sexually attractive I go to pieces! I can chat endlessly & openly to anyone & everyone but if someone talks to me who I like I really struggle to hold an initial conversation with them either verbally or online, I just seem to loose my words!
So you see you’re not alone it’s all about finding ways around our struggles 😁
LikeWolfeWitche · 07.01.2020 19:33:05
Annalou
Annalou First off, give yourself some massive kudos for opening up about your fetishes here. As someone who is "horribly shy" as you say, this is a massive hurdle crossed and you will no doubt find it easier as time goes on to open up to others. It can be really hard to approach the subject of fetish to Read more… anyone, let alone someone you have your eye on Something that many kinksters find valuable is to attend a Munch in their nearby area, which is a kind of meet-up (usually in a public space like a cafe, pub or bar) where like-minded people gather to get to know each other and talk about their fetishes, judgement-free. If you've never attended one, it might be a good option for you. See our guide on attending your first Munch to get some tips before you go. We also have loads of resources to help you get out there and explore your kinks. Why not read our articles about how to talk to vanilla partners about your kinks and how to find a partner that's into your kink. Hope this helps you on your journey, and keep it kinky!
LikeVandalslut, enka123 · 07.01.2020 11:50:31
Vandalslut
Vandalslut Good for you, DandyAndy. Sometimes it's hard to confess our kinks even to our nearest, dearest and closest. As BigPolly says, you're talking to strangers now but soon we will be friends. As for whether you're being 'hit on' for real or not - it's about body language. There is a thread in here on Read more… that topic, only started recently, so try putting 'body language' into the search box and have a good read. If you have any questions, there will be plenty of new friends willing to answer you. I've never had to deal with online 'interest' so I can't help you there, I'm afraid. Experience will be your best teacher - and making haste slowly. Congratulations on starting your journey. Best blessings and best of luck.
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