I'm an intelligent, successful business owner who has recently discovered that I enjoy being on the submissive side of BDSM far more than I ever expected. I'm looking for someone more Dominant—male or female—who enjoys structure, discipline, trust, and building a genuine connection, not just random play. But a switch would be okay as well.

I'm a single guy in Granger, Indiana, with a successful career and a fulfilling vanilla life.

I used to identify almost exclusively as a Dominant, but over the past few years I've discovered that my submissive side is where I feel most fulfilled, and I'm excited to continue exploring that journey.

I've discovered that what fulfills me most is a structured D/s dynamic built on trust, clear expectations, accountability, and consensual discipline. I especially enjoy impact play, including paddling, but it's the power exchange and connection that matter most to me.

I'm especially drawn to firm but caring Dominants who enjoy guiding, challenging, and bringing out the best in their submissive. Chemistry, trust, communication, and negotiated boundaries are very important to me. I'm interested in building a dynamic where both people feel respected, challenged, and genuinely enjoy the journey together.

I own on my own and am 420-friendly, with plenty to share if that's your thing. If not, that's perfectly okay too.

Outside of kink, I'm a business owner and also work as a DJ on weekends. I'm an audiophile with a huge love of music and audio equipment, and I'm a big fan of movies—especially classic films.

If you're looking for someone who values honesty, communication, and a real connection as much as the D/s itself, I'd love to hear from you.