Consent, Trust and Respect are the cornerstones of everything I do in D/s.

Personal Information -
Straight male 49, single (divorced).
Looking for -

• Open minded and kink friendly friends OR
• Friendship with a view towards a relationship/long term play partner OR
• Long term slave

Experience -
Approx 25+ years of experience in D/s, initially trained by my first slave (so safety, trust and respect is paramount to me, both during and outside of play). Having said that, even with 25+ years under my belt, I don't profess to know everything and am still always learning. So please ... whether we are play partners or not, feel free to engage and share your own experiences!

About me -
These days, I am more into being a Daddy and a mentor, but still very open to M/s and D/s if the right slave/sub comes along. I enjoy mentoring, teaching and supporting. My role (or the role I define for myself) is to provide a safe and non-judgmental environment for my submissive (slave/sub/LG etc) to experiment in and to explore their sexuality in. Not all my casual encounters involve me getting laid as sex is not my priority but the mental and psychological conditioning and putting you in that state of mind.
So what is important to me?

• mental connections
• mutual trust and respect
• open and honest communication

Hard Limits -

• Permanent damage

• Anything involving ***s (actual ***s, not talking about pet play etc.)
• Anything illegal
• Anything that is actual disrespect of another (very different when it is within the context of the agreed relationship and when it is actual disrespect)
• Lack of integrity