In my early 40s and finally owning the dominant side that layed dormant for decades. My deepest passion right now is bondage, specifically shibari, but the rope is just the tool. What I'm looking for is someone who wants to surrender within clear, negotiated boundaries.

Safety, communication, and boundaries are not negotiable and I'll be there for aftercare. We will vet properly, talk through boundaries and limits, and establish clear guidelines. I am open to more casual play but ideally seeking a long term dynamic. I'm located in Central Maine but willing to travel for the right sub. If control with conscience appeals to you, message me.

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