Your right. I was blessed and taught not to bang their box out. So I thought all women would like a bigger one. That's not true. Most do but some don't. Even if they don't feel tight to you, they may still prefer something smaller. Whoever said fingering and munchin is where it's at and your Read more… wanker is secondary. I think that's accurate. Gotta have a sense of touch. Keep your dick skinners clean and manicured. I literally take a belt sander to mine to grind callouses off. Nails clean and filed smooth. At a minimum index and middle finger. You don't want them getting an infection so it's up to us to do our part too. Oh ya most porn is way off. Look at her facial expressions. Reading body language is critical for most women. They rarely give instructions.