Heading to grad school soon. I tend to read too much and feel too deeply, but I’ll still somehow find time to fix your car or cook you a meal. Dog dad, cat uncle, and someone who knows when to give space and when to step in. I lead with care, but I’m not shy about control when it’s needed.

I like things honest, consistent, and drama-free. If you’re emotionally unavailable, passive aggressive, or don’t know what you want, I’ll pass.

I’m big on communication and reliability, both inside and outside the bedroom. I click with those who can speak their mind, explore power dynamics with curiosity, and enjoy being taken care of, but aren’t afraid to show some edge or fire back when it’s deserved.

I’m primarily a Pleasure Dom by default, but I’m into pavlov training, public play, and rope (to name a few). If you like being praised and ruined in the same breath, we’ll get along just fine.

Kink to me is storytelling. It’s not just what we do, it’s how we make each other feel in the process. I want connection, not just sensation.

Outside all that: I write (poetry, essays, short fiction), I read a lot, I volunteer when I can. I run, skate, hike, and work on cars. My playlists are a mix of punk, rap, rock, and alternative with maybe a little R&B tucked in.

Very few, just ask.