Not insane at all Ff .... sadly a few alleged Doms let the rest of us down, its ok having a Dominant or subservient personality, its who we are , but its no excuse to trying to inflict that on a total stranger aside from which, no one can claim to be a Dom if they dont treat a potential submissive Read more… with total respect from the start as the whole dynamic of a true D/s relationship is built on total trust respect and understanding.

That kind of approach is totally unacceptable and disrespectful, a true Dom/Domme will treat you with the utmost respect as Dominance is only born out of you as a submissive choosing to submit to a particular Dom/Domme and then trusting them to use that submission to satisfy both your needs... Read more… whether those needs include degradation and at what level is determined through the conversations you have prior to making the choice whether to submit to that particular Dom/Domme or not.