I am a successful entrepreneur by day and a Master by night. The vanilla world doesn't allow me to be true to myself in the day so I need to all night long.

I am poly and happy to be so. I have learned over the years that you must truly find what makes you happy no matter what others think.

If they can't accept you for who you are they are not really your friends. So go and find who and what you truly are and what will truly bring you happiness. Don't settle because it is easy. I did that and wasted 6 years in a vanilla relationship and marriage that made me nothing but depressed and angry.

There is no right way or one size fits all situation. You need to figure out what you need to make you happy and find a person or people that fulfill that. I have heard from people who say they don't know how they fit in because they can't define what they need in the generic archetypes. That's okay maybe you need something that most can't give.

Be happy, live long, and enjoy life.