Wow if someone does that then they’re not safe

My biggest red flags is when someone does that skips over consent skips over limits like it’s annoying that ***es me off. That’s a big red flag.

Well, I can tell you it gets worse. A lot of these newcomers who called themselves DOMS or masters I have no idea what they’re doing

They read a book and they think they know I actually had someone tell me one time they thought the lifestyle was like the book in the movie Fifty Shades of Grey

This was awesome and so beautiful

Sounds like someone’s having a blast

Honestly, you need to heal yourself and find out what you lost and take stock of who you are because people will destroy you and then it takes time to figure out what they took away from you

I’m not sure what the acceptable about a time to wait is

First of all anyone that you’re gonna make a long-term relationship. They have to respect you first as a person. Another thing is find out about them. I have really good friends in this community in Arizona I can usually go to them and ask, but also prepare a list of questions you want to see them Read more… answer. Kind of like a little test to see if they’ll respect your boundaries and your limits.