Vanilla Me
Lived in 5 countries and traveled 20+. I always have a bit of wanderlust, even though I do not get to travel nearly as often anymore. Meyers-Briggs Tested - ESTJ, Master of Business Administration, and Work in Fortune 100 Management. I love a good Scotch/Whisky/Whiskey, even though I rarely drink. Complete Foodie and Die-hard Cinephile/Movieholic. You can find me at the theater enjoying a Sci-Fi, Marvel, zombie, comedy, or some historical drama on the weekends.

Say what you mean and mean what you say! I don't have time for the BS of being fake or flaky. Be real or be gone.

Kinky Me
Bringing all of your sinful desires to life and probably conjuring up a few you have not thought of yet.

20+ years in the lifestyle, Hetero Dominant Male, Ethically Non-Monogamous, Sapiosexual, Non-Jealous, Candaulist/Stag/Hedonist//Bull/Buck. I love to train service-oriented submissive females in all sorts of areas, not just sex. However, my fetish list below describes my kinks rather succinctly. DDF with proof upon request.

What I am, my personality and my role in WIITWD revolves around the teacher, professor, Headmaster, and leader/mentor roles. Although I am not decidedly sadistic, I do use ***, typically my paddle, more as a carrot vs. stick, implemented as a punishment to correct behavior—rather, behavior modification through mentorship, leadership, and, if all else fails, physics. I enjoy guiding a female to a natural state of subservience, both mentally and sexually. I help break down years of societal, religious, and mental barriers to enjoyment. Think of what I do is converting a female into "If June Cleaver had a leather bondage harness and butt plug under her dress, combined with an insatiable cock worship complex, and desire to be the fuck toy prize at Ward's neighborhood poker party." I had one past trainee describe me and my training as "EnigmaticErudite's (real name substituted) finishing school for wayward sluts."

During my time in the community, I have met fantastic people from all walks of life and trained some incredible, service-oriented pleasure slaves. See my pictures and videos if you like. All are mine and taken by me.

I look forward to future endeavors and making new friends and trainees.

Please always feel free to drop me a note to say hello or pose questions. I sometimes do not know all the answers. Who does? We are all human. I will find out for you or point you to the right person, book, or resource. I was new once. So, might you be? I get it.

-CIS female
-18+ years old with a High School Diploma. Although ideally, be finished with, or within a year of completing, your Associate or Bachelor (preferred)
-Disease and Drug-free; this includes marijuana.
-No criminal background or DUI/DWI.
-Bisexual, pansexual, or heteroflexible. Strongly bi-curious but lack of experience acceptable, as long as you understand it will be a component of your training.
-Ideally, you would be single and have no family members living with you or needing your attention (*** or elderly parents, for example).
-Emotionally stable.
-BDSM experience as a 24/7 TPE slave is NOT required. However, a willingness to explore and have a selfless, service-oriented mindset is needed.
-You may be exploring and evolving, but you must know that you desire to be, and agree to be, trained as a pleasure slave. You may not be uncertain in terms of your BDSM goals/desires.
-You should have a strong desire to please, serve, be controlled, even micromanaged, and have a high need to obey.
-Seeking formalized training in an M/s 24/7 TPE relationship with her being collared and owned during the training period. This will be the life of a slave devoted to her training. It will not be the life of scenes or only bedroom play.
-Be local to the Raleigh/Durham, NC area, OR able to relocate within six months, and desire a real-time relationship rather than online or text.