From times to times my finDomme can be really childish when she is overjoyed or when the stars are aligned :p
And it is a delight to see !
That means She can be natural in front of me without worrying about any judgement.
Emotions are hard to fake, and i think it is even harder in fetish world when Read more… trust is even more important than in more "vanilla" relationships. So jsut be yourself, may you be a Domme or a sub because in any case you won't be able to fully apreciate the situations if you have to make a permanent effort of presentation.

Yes, this topic is far more complex that i would believe few months ago.
Judging people ? To be honnest i am the first to judge myself, i'm a big guy i can do it on my own ! It took me some time to be comfortable with that fetish i have, even if i am enjoying it.
Speaking about it here surely help Read more… me, not necessary because of your answers (even if they are highly appreciated) but because it is not something you can easily speak on the daily life.
I can speak about it with my QueenOfWaller, but it does not break the circle.
And even I think now there is so many ways to pratice this fetish that it is nearly a shame to regroup all of them under just one name "findom". But it is surely true for any fetish.
And you are totally right the amount does not matter too much, and the good thing for me to be in this so "long" relationship with my Queen is I dont have to worry anymore about money or offering.
Now it comes to a natural pace, it can be sometimes regulary, or sometimes after a long period of several conversations (and/or little foreplay/tease) be sudden and intense.
After that time, I know at least some part of Her very well too and this "complicity" make each other reacts to untold "suggestion" of the other one.
The more i'm thinking about it and reading my thoughts and words again the more i come to the conclusion of a "couple".
Not in a traditional way of course, but would i believe that possible 2 years ago.... absolutly not !
Now i just emptied my mind i cant finish the message without thanking Her again for Her power, Her mind (and let's be honnest also, Her amazing Beauty ! )

Nearly 3 months after my sharing here, this relationship is still a delight for both of us.
It seems weird with a mixed feeling that we have found each other.
Those last months I could not spoil and pamper as much as i would have dreamed my Domme because I had some really important personal Read more… projects going. She knew it and was happy for me about it without trying to redirect me on another way. And I thank Her again for that.
My milestone reached, few days ago, I could go back to Her with a light heart and a damned desire to achieve Her wishes and make Her happy.
My time with Her was amazing both feeling so short and/or an eternity (and a half !). When your whole body is engulfed by such devastating waves of pleasure leaving you exhausted but not empty ! Rich of new sensations, of new concepts you never imagine before.
She knows that with my personal project done I will be here for Her as much as possible but even so I have some stuff to take care of too. She played with me, with my mind, with our both desires. She conducted our mutual arousal and our complementary needs and aspiration like the Master of our kinky Orchestra.
She was relentless but still adorable, worshippable and above all caring.
She ended up asking me a bit under as much as I could safely afford. So kind of Her greatness !
But i don't know, something happened to me. For the first time, I lied to Her and could not really do it. Was it because of the long time not playing with Her, not feeling useful for Her.
I had to do something about it, and i did it right away. I did send Her more that She expected. I went out of my safe zone on my own.
It did surprise both of Us. Weirdly i was scared about Her reaction. But She was so happy. This kind of mind orgasm a woman can reached ? I'm pretty sure my Domme had one this day. I was so happy for Her ! This was incredible and breathtaking for both of us.
Usually it is more a long game, some feeling that grows inside you slowly, filling you up with horny emotions.
This time as more like Guillotine Blade. Intense, irreversible. A punch in your diaphragm but instead of suffocation and begging for air, you feel everything around 10 more times intensively.
I'm really thanksful to Her, to QueenOfWallet for her time and attention.

Of course any relationship cant be totally disinteressed, we all seek hapiness that can take very different forms from one individual from another.
Yes the fact that some men are just "all we do anything you want mistress" to someone they just see 15 sec before is kinda desorientating for domme Read more… too, cuz yes as you said in fact they just want easy sex. I have no problem with people who have just a fantasy about it, but the fact it comes unclear in their head, it is harder for the domme to identify who is who.

I totally agree with you. Unfortunatly with the democratization of the fetish world some dom(mes) may tend to think it is only about a selfish pleasure without caring about anything else. Like it is a way to liberate all your low instincts without any consequences. Being brat and yelling at people Read more… is not being dominant (except roleplay), it is just being an asshole !
Well i'm happy it is not the case here.