Mostly into women, but open. The bond matters. Long time FTM (so unintentionally stealth), looking for real partnership and power exchange. Not looking for a kink dispenser and I relish being explored and growing. Being a sub means I’m a supportive cheerleader and tool for my partner and Doms have hard days too.
Being a chosen, trusted, protected, receptacle could free us both.

1/8:
If you want to live out west in a cool van with a dog, waking to the desert or ocean, I’m 75% yours!
edit: more serious about this - really looking at off grid vans with starlink and an induction cooktop. I love structure and happy routine. I offer enthusiasm for someone who wants to dig at my kinks and shames and make psychological art of me.
I also offer fun conversation, a wicked sense of humor, a passion for sacrifice and integrity, and deep empathy.

I was in health care for a long time and am not currently working, but have an unimpressive steady income stream. I’ve had a job since I was 8. I’m pretty done. it just occurred to me that my very intense, ***ful, ridiculous, off the charts job has left a huge part of me unused. The lifestyle Is growing into some of that space.

I really don’t “play” with BDSM - kink
alone is just an itch to be scratched. It’s emotional and kinda scary for both parties - and I know a lot of subs are total needy nut jobs.

On the other hand, I’m likely to be sexual and communicating and flirting such that when anything BDSM related creeps into things, as they do for me if I’m aroused and have shared my dark secrets in confessional conversations.

Since you didn’t ask … my ultimate, real life goal is living (with tech, comfort, dog) with my partner on the road, work remotely, and explore. I’m an army brat and movie lover and this would be amazing. socialize if we want, sunrise in the ***ted desert, cozy evenings, movie nights, goofing off, I’m totally open to including others if you wish.

Or, being the world’s oldest house boy or pet. I suppose I could be a Van boy or pet. A lot of fun could be had outside in the middle of nowhere and at gatherings. Seriously though I think a full time LTR with me in my place trying not to be too much work for my partner seems clean and pretty and simple in fundamental ways. I have done this for spells with partners just trying it out for a few years.

if you can’t tell, I tend to over communicate to the exclusion of other truths.
I hope to hear from some interesting, sexual, sensual, people with something to say.

I can’t rule much out because I want to grow. I may need some cultivation, however. Since I am kinky as part of dating, and being open and creative and supportive is part of that, I dislike listing limits. The few I think I have may also be secondary to a couple long term partners who thought being dominant came to them naturally.