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Gender Man
Age 47
Status Single
Height 178cm
Weight 85kg
Origin UK
Zodiac sign Virgo

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

  • Friends
  • Kinky Dates
  • LTR (relationship)

Description

I'm into power dynamics and control, it taps into something quite deep and instinctive within me and hopefully you find the same too. Of course with power comes responsibility and I take this responsibility seriously, I believe trust is something that should never be treated carelessly, it's the foundation everything else is built on.

Being dominant is a fundamental part of who I am rather than just a role I play and as such it's not something that gets switched on or off, it's always there, albeit sometimes more beneath the surface than overt. That means that while sometimes I can be strict, other times I might be a bit silly, and hopefully you enjoy this contrast - not everything needs to be serious all the time.

I'm told I'm a very calming presence, somewhat memorably one friend said she feels like she's had a spa after she's spent time with me, so if you enjoy that we might well get on.

Kink wise I like a variety of things, especially things that involve a bit of *** or sadism.

Outside kink I have a lot of different interests from music and art, to travel to wild and woolly places. I've lived in a few different countries and speak some Russian, but am from the UK.

Limits

Violating trust, permanent damage.

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Exousis
icon-wio Exousis has updated their profile description
  • 16.03.2026 22:11:18
  • Male (47)
  • London
  • Single
I'm into power dynamics and control, it taps into something quite deep and instinctive within me and hopefully you find the same too. Of course with power comes responsibility and I take this responsibility seriously, I believe trust is something that should never be treated carelessly, it's the Read more… foundation everything else is built on.

Being dominant is a fundamental part of who I am rather than just a role I play and as such it's not something that gets switched on or off, it's always there, albeit sometimes more beneath the surface than overt. That means that while sometimes I can be strict, other times I might be a bit silly, and hopefully you enjoy this contrast - not everything needs to be serious all the time.

I'm told I'm a very calming presence, somewhat memorably one friend said she feels like she's had a spa after she's spent time with me, so if you enjoy that we might well get on.

Kink wise I like a variety of things, especially things that involve a bit of *** or sadism.

Outside kink I have a lot of different interests from music and art, to travel to wild and woolly places. I've lived in a few different countries and speak some Russian, but am from the UK.
Exousis
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  • 17.10.2025 17:06:14
  • Male (47)
  • London
  • Single
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  • 16.08.2025 17:30:46
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Exousis
icon-wio Exousis has updated the limits
  • 22.06.2025 9:32:43
  • Male (47)
  • London
  • Single
Violating trust, permanent damage.
Exousis
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  • 03.05.2025 19:19:05
  • Male (47)
  • London
  • Single
My main limit is violating trust or causing any lasting , whether physical or emotional. I'm also not a fan of .
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  • 10.02.2025 19:59:45
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  • 01.09.2024 21:26:22
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  • 20.09.2023 12:14:04
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  • 20.09.2023 12:14:04
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Exousis
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  • 19.05.2023 9:08:18
  • Male (47)
  • London
  • Single
Guess I'm clueless?

Don't ghost him, I appreciate saying no to someone is difficult but good people will appreciate you treated them with respect.
Personally I would say be a bit careful. It sounds like you enjoy his company, but if you are going to become friends I would set clear boundaries. A situation where Read more… you're friends but occasionally have sex even though he's not physically attracted to you wouldn't be great for your mental health I suspect.

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  • 06.03.2023 21:17:19
  • Male (47)
  • London
  • Single

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