I have a slightly more unusual background, growing up across various countries but with boarding school in the UK. Think Hogwarts but with rugby instead of quidditch, and school holidays sailing in Lagos harbour or camping on a Libyan beach.

As an adult I became Australian for a while but got sick of the flies and have now settled back in civilisation once more where you can be befuddled by contemporary art and drink in the street.

I'm here because I'm into kink, particularly the deeper side of D/s, power exchange, control etc. It's what's going on in the mind that makes the physical stuff so intensely satisfying. If you're the kind of woman who finds a certain peace and freedom in surrender, or you simply find it a turn on being told what to do then we might get along very well.

My kink interests are fairly wide ranging but I will say I'm not a pleasure dom or service top, I lean towards the rougher or more primal side but with lots of aftercare and cuddling.

Vanilla wise I'm really into music and particularly live music, from classical to electronic, techno to folk. Also art, and more adventurous travel, did the Pamir Highway this year. I'm learning to play violin and speak Russian.

Looking for real life meets / dates, not pen pals.

Violating trust, permanent damage.