Strick dominant but fair, caring, respectful with an edge for sadism.
Like to use ropes, knives, belt, cane.
PS: STRAIGHT not interested in male!
I would love to find a posh girl with curves like an exotic island, with beautiful feet, an ass shaped for spanking, lips made for sucking till the last drop. She will be stand on her knees on my side licking my hand and wait for her next punishment. then I will put her in her cage for the day, waiting for me to come back from work.
It’s not about a grammar question or lesson but more about a hierarchy to respect. You don’t write for example the queen of England but the Queen... not my favourite example but typical about what I try to explain.
My subs would never dare to make a second mistake about not using capital. Without Read more… following structure and rules everything collapse, I am not pedantic about it.
After all we all free here to decide within our own dynamic, If you like to adress your Sir/sir or Sub/sub
First learn not to make mistake like spelling Master with low case m!
You are not a Master yet, go slowly and start being a Top and see how you get on!
Read a lots about safety issues, learn about the human mind and body...
You didn’t learn swimming by jumping of the boat in the middle of the Read more… ocean?
The most inportant thing to remember in any situation is the control. Always be in control of what you are doing, even if its intense like rough sex.
I am primal when we are in the sex mode, I bite, slap and strangle but always always remember whos on the other side, its my little kitten sub and I Read more… wont like to harm her because I let myself going to far.
So I am not sure how big you are and how primal you are, but there are some thinking to do, and not only with your dowstairs brain...
Its in you and will never go away, you will do it soon or later. Your choice is more a question about the time. Maybe you should try with a professional, no emotion and treat it like any other medical need. If you still feel guilty wait until you cant wait any longer....if your wife loves you she Read more… will understand but will make you pay for a while....
BUt to be honest its not up to us to give you the right to do it or not or even to encourage to do it.
I don't need you to remind me about RACK, I practice knives play, ropes, strangulation, breath play and my subs are still alived and happy and safe.
the op didnt get any tips or advice other than open the door wide, or scared him about doing his fantasy.
I read his post and what I thought was that Read more… they chat and skype numerous times, and that he mentioned shes very submissive to the point of doing that fantasy. Its not like its on their first comms they decided to do it. So I assumed maybe wrongly they are was enought trust between them two. We didnt get any more details regarding how long they had comms between them before deciding that risky frisky kink.
So maybe here is the tips and advice.
Ask someone you can trust to wait for you at the hotel or near by.
Do this kind of fantasy if both of you agree to leave their driving licence to a third party.
Agree to film the session and sign an agreement, then delete the video after a month.
Now for the sake of proving my point, you could assess all the risk you want, accidents still happen. You have your sub tied to a chair and suddenly the chair break and she land on her side cracking ribs or even the clavicule. Or lets say you had a sub for a year , done all sorts of kink, involving rape play, whipping etc, then one day after a year you have a knock at the door then you see the blue light outside. She accused you of rape and physical abuse.
Thats why I mention paranoia...
you could wear a daytime collar, something discreet which is significant for both of you, or an anklet
at a precise time of the day send him a voice message saying you are his cock slut, while pinching your righ nipple or left depending his preference
simplistic view indeed for one of the most complex human emotion.
Love can hurt , make you cry, kill, commit suicide, frustrate, push people to limits, conquer fear etc...
When in love it takes you to the point of no return...
ok, didnt know so you see how difficult it is to get some answer here. We dont know all the details but by what you said hes not fit to be your Sir and be in a family home. Maybe you could ask a friend having the children for one day and ask a good friend around and have a good conversation with Read more… your bf. Going real deep on whats going on.
hundred types of submissions multiply by the numbers of differents personality add thousands of kinks then maybe you get some kind of formula.
so no love doesnt have to, I dont love my subs and most of them doesnt want it either. Care, trust ,respect, health safety are important, love bring drama, Read more… in my opinion of course unless you intend to be a couple...