Strick dominant but fair, caring, respectful with an edge for sadism.
Like to use ropes, knives, belt, cane.
PS: STRAIGHT not interested in male!
I would love to find a posh girl with curves like an exotic island, with beautiful feet, an ass shaped for spanking, lips made for sucking till the last drop. She will be stand on her knees on my side licking my hand and wait for her next punishment. then I will put her in her cage for the day, waiting for me to come back from work.
Depends what kind of deride/kink you are into? It’s very vague asking that type of question.
I think you need to start by knowing yourself very well,assess your ability to understand the gender you are willing to have a relationship with. Knowing basic safety, and human body.. it’s a very complex Read more… world, more than just kinky sex and spanking🤔
Like eyem said if they don’t have the financial sign they are not officially recognised by the website and should be reported as they will be scammers.
Dont behave like you are desperate and attract this kind of people. Be patient
sorry I was lost in translation and I understand what you mean now. That time your relationship sound like a switch one. There is a thin line in bdsm that you need to be in control, and maybe because you were young but also vulnerable you didnt see it coming. Like you said he open the door of bdsm Read more… to you and now you cant come back, you taste it and its you. It will be long prob before you find someone you can trust to be at that level again, but I am sure it will happen again, hopefuly for you :)
for the moment he is intoxicated with her, its like an illness, soon he will recover and maybe come back to you and realised his mistake. but if you still love him make sure you are here for him. he will do the same for you. but dont give him any money
dont ever be ashamed or feel bad about your own kink, except of course for the obvious illegal one. If you type amputee fetish you would find lots of you
there was a dancing program this year with a female amputee and she was quite sexy and wonder how many time she must have been asked if she Read more… is using her amputeed arm lol
Talking about feelings is very difficult for lots of subs you are not the only one and its a good question.
I find it better sometime to give a notebook to my sub, and make her write feelings, likes, dislikes and sensations during sessions and after or before. Then I read it on my own, think about Read more… it, then read it again in her presence and sort out things.
Communication is the key of an healthy relationship.
its realy sad that your first experience with bdsm( which wasnt really) has been that bad.
So try to forget about it and read a bit more about how to negociate with your first real Dom.
Most of respectful ones would go through all the right way to do it.
Write down your list of do and don't . Read more… Limits and hard limits. Your likes and dislikes, things you are willing to try.
Meeting vanilla till you are comfortable for your first sessions. No sex during first sessions if you dont want too.
And never ever get tied up on the first sessions, always make sure you are free to leave anytime.