no. not at all. it's just taking advantage of your kink for financial gain, totally up to you if you want to pay someone for that but that's a terrible way to start an actual relationship

clue 18: I wanted a coffee but I'm all out of

@PixieDustis the next one out yet?

u da bestest

I'm only in here on my phone, and I'm on 14 I think and not a clue where to find the clues for the ones I'm missing 😂😂

personally for me there's nothing less submissive than saying "give me your money as a tribute", whether it means it or not it ALWAYS comes across to me as "I'm not independent enough and have to rely on /ask/beg you for money", which is pretty much on the same level as grovelling for anything such Read more… as an orgasm like a sub would
when I dom someone it's the opposite, I'll be the one buying them gifts and stuff, showing them they're mine because they're now wearing my thing I bought them or whatever, and showing them I'm not begging them for money
if I want to buy someone I like a gift to show show i like them, then thats different, that's my decision to do something that wasn't asked of me, but IMHO to ask for money is to put yourself at the person being asked's mercy

if someone is on a dating site, talking to you first, then out of nowhere demands a tribute, theyre only in it for the money, and a lot of the time they're not even the person in their profile
if they make it clear that they will charge in their profile before you even send a message then it's up Read more… to you
the people who out of nowhere demand payment shouldn't be on a dating site, and they know it, and if you report them they'll probably get blocked, theyre purely trying to get people horny to make them think they're getting something
sadly it actually works, I know a guy who used to get a couple hundred a month with nothing more than a few copy pasted messages and fake photos of a girl on a profile

have they all been released or what's the deal? I've never been given a clue