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Status

Not single

In a relationship with ChaoticNature

Personal details

Gender Man
Age 55
Status Not single
Height 174cm
Weight 79kg
Body shape Athletic
Eye colour Green
Beard Shaved/no beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Natural
Circumcised No
Zodiac sign Scorpio
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

Description

Thanks to this site and the amazing support and encouragement from people I have met on here, I have found an amazing woman to continue my journey with. I couldn't have done it without this community!! (The good people here far outweigh the dickheads!!)
Still keen to make friends and chat with like minded people to discuss and share our journeys!

I've been encouraged and enabled to explore my Dom side.
I have also discovered ropes and Shibari - I have really enjoyed creating art with the combination of skin and rope and would love to practice more. I don't expect that anyone will want to hook up after a couple of messages and get into naked or highly sexualised bondage with me on the first date - I'mhappy to talk, develop understanding and trust and explore simple patterns and ropework fully clothed, I genuinely want to explore this as an artform and would like to be able to explore with a partner.
That's not to say I haven't also enjoyed more dominant rope work as well.
I consider myself respectful and find the trust placed in me to be a special gift that when well used is very rewarding for us both.

Limits

Always respectful ... your limits are my limits, but let's see how far we can go together

My roles & archetype

Fetish.com gives you…


Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Hastings with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!

Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 11.01.2026 2:24:24
  • Male (55)
  • Hastings
  • Not single
A private gallery by any other name……

Brilliant work @PixieDust, you are on the nose with the satire and the message. Unfortunate that this is the way so many "men" think is an ok way to act!

Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 23.12.2025 22:14:01
  • Male (55)
  • Hastings
  • Not single
A Kinkmas Carol…God rest ye merry, kinky ones……

Another fantastic take on the season of giving!!

Fathership
icon-wio Fathership created a topic in BDSM Stories & Kinky Sex Confessions
A cautionary KInkmas tale...
It was late in the night, and later in the year,
Everything was a rush, Christmas soon would be here.
In the North Pole the workshop was full of tired elves,
They'd been trying to do all the work by themselves.
The big dude was busy, doing a job for his missus,
And if this wasn't done, he'd Read more…get no Christmas kisses!
Santa should have been working, not taking a pause
But he'd been given “one small task” by Mrs Clause.
This year, she had said with grim certainty,
It's your turn to trim the house and put up the tree.
So Santa was busy. In fact, he was frantic.
A man of his build wasn't made for this type of antic.
Bending and stretching, reaching and feeling
Every joint of his aching as he tinseled the ceiling.
His only assistant was so light and airy,
Quite ***y useless, that soft Christmas fairy!
She flitted about and just got in the way,
Each time he picked up a trinket, she'd float past and say -
“Ohh that's so lovely, but where will it go?
Please tell me Santa, I just need to know!”
As he bent and he stretched, while she twittered and flew,
He fumed to himself: “I don't know what I'll do”
“That ***y fairy, she's no help at all.
I wish you'd shut up. And get that tree in from the hall!”
So he ignored her twittering, her endless chatter.
As she asked where to put baubles he snapped, “Doesn't matter”!
“Just get all the tinsel, the candles, the strings.
Up high round the room, make good use of your wings”.
As he tried to untie the lights that were tangled,
She'd interrupt and distract him, 'till his thoughts were all mangled.
She kept messing around. “What about this?” She would ask.
But she just couldn't do it. Couldn't stick to one task.
And so it went on as she kept interrupting.
Soon, Santa could feel his anger erupting.
“I really can't cope”, he thought, “She's such a twit”,
“This job would be done if not for her shit!”.
“If she asks me once more, “where should this go?”
“I swear I'll bend her right over and then she will know!”.
And then it did happen. The tragedy occurred.
The scream, then the tears. That's all the elves heard.
They ran in, they stared, saw the look on his face.
Then saw the fairy, in a very sore place.
“What happened?” they cried. “It's her fault”, Santa spat.
“When I picked up the tree, she asked. “Where will you put that?”
And that's why, dear readers, to this day you will see.
A fairy, impaled by her ass, atop the Christmas tree.
Likemckinney435304, ch3rryb0mber101, Hansen123and 22 more… · 3 Replies
havelock404
havelock404 Beautiful pixie Beautiful pixie
Like · 22.12.2025 13:26:02
doubletrouble129
doubletrouble129 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 Outstanding! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 Outstanding!
Like · 22.12.2025 12:51:40
PixieDust
PixieDust 😂🤣🤣🤣😂 Very well done, that was very funny and very clever. I really enjoyed reading that. Thank you for sharing 💜 😂🤣🤣🤣😂 Very well done, that was very funny and very clever. I really enjoyed reading that. Thank you for sharing 💜
LikeFathership · 22.12.2025 10:10:47
Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 08.12.2025 11:24:03
  • Male (55)
  • Hastings
  • Not single
A Kinkmas Carol…Bouncing boobies……

Love it Pixie! Love your writing and your sense of humor!
So good to have you back!

LikePixieDust, ChameleonLady · Jump to discussion
Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 11.10.2025 7:39:51
  • Male (55)
  • Hastings
  • Not single
The FET Family Singalong……

Love it! You've got my thing tapping along!

Fathership
icon-wio Fathership created a topic in BDSM Stories & Kinky Sex Confessions
A literal dick pic!
Ok, so, quite literally, here it comes .... please, scroll to the bottom and then read upwards ....
l
a m
r s
e a
t g
i r
l o
a
n
i
out
spasm,
those letters
then from the tip
the shaft starts to Read more…taper,
one by one they move up and
stay still on the paper,
they get excited, won't
start acting like sperm
Then letters themselves
The shape becomes firm
Your poem soon grows,
flow like bl00d in an upright direction
to describe your erection, the words
When you write a poem
LikeChameleonLady, lovinginleawood, KinkyMinx2023and 35 more… · 7 Replies
Wilkie
Wilkie Very clever, well done, Very clever, well done,
Like · 07.10.2025 10:08:47
TKK1 This is brilliant!! This is brilliant!!
LikeFathership 07.10.2025 2:18:39
doubletrouble129
doubletrouble129 Very creative 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Very creative 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
LikeFathership · 06.10.2025 22:26:52
Fathership
icon-wio Fathership has updated their profile description
  • 27.07.2025 10:13:23
  • Male (55)
  • Hastings
  • Not single
Thanks to this site and the amazing support and encouragement from people I have met on here, I have found an amazing woman to continue my journey with. I couldn't have done it without this community!! (The good people here far outweigh the dickheads!!)
Still keen to make friends and chat with Read more… like minded people to discuss and share our journeys!

I've been encouraged and enabled to explore my Dom side.
I have also discovered ropes and Shibari - I have really enjoyed creating art with the combination of skin and rope and would love to practice more. I don't expect that anyone will want to hook up after a couple of messages and get into naked or highly sexualised bondage with me on the first date - I'mhappy to talk, develop understanding and trust and explore simple patterns and ropework fully clothed, I genuinely want to explore this as an artform and would like to be able to explore with a partner.
That's not to say I haven't also enjoyed more dominant rope work as well.
I consider myself respectful and find the trust placed in me to be a special gift that when well used is very rewarding for us both.
Fathership
icon-wio Fathership is no longer single
  • 27.07.2025 10:08:36
  • Male (55)
  • Hastings
  • Not single
Fathership
icon-wio Fathership is in a relationship with ChaoticNature
  • 27.07.2025 10:08:25
  • Male (55)
  • Hastings
  • Not single
Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 13.07.2025 2:32:28
  • Male (55)
  • Hastings
  • Not single
Linger……

Beautiful work Pixie!!

Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 11.07.2025 23:01:57
  • Male (55)
  • Hastings
  • Not single
Look at me all of me

Love it! You be you and be beautiful too!

Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 04.07.2025 11:36:29
  • Male (55)
  • Hastings
  • Not single
Crave……

Nice work! A pixie with cravings, that is a fairytale looking for a happy ending!

Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 01.07.2025 13:34:55
  • Male (55)
  • Hastings
  • Not single
Whispers of Woe..

That's powerful! Thanks for sharing.

LikeBeastincaRnate · Jump to discussion
Fathership
icon-wio Fathership created a topic in BDSM Stories & Kinky Sex Confessions
Controlled loss of Control
This is the companion poem to "Submission doesn't mean subjected" that I posted earlier.
an attempt at telling the same tale from the other viewpoint
Controlled loss of Control:
You didn’t take control
I gave it
You knew me as a whole
I craved it
I trusted you would know
How to feel the ebb Read more…and flow
Of power between us two
And the role I give to you
And so you took control
Of the aching in my soul
Knew the way to touch my skin
To set free the woman trapped within
For what I need from you
The things I wanted you to do
Were hard to say aloud
I thought they weren’t allowed
But when you are in charge
It somehow feels less hard
To let go my inhibition
To trust your intuition
This act of my submission
Giving you permission
To give in to your desires
Because they light my fires
And you satisfy my soul
With a controlled loss of control!
LikebadbadLER0YBR0WN, MrsLucifer1591, philadelphia77536and 13 more… · 1 Reply
jefferson71419 😍 😍
LikeFathership 28.06.2025 9:19:50
Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 24.06.2025 1:47:30
  • Male (55)
  • Hastings
  • Not single
How do you deal with a "Ghost"?

Without communication there is no respect, and without respect you don't have trust. In my view, without those three things you dont have a relationship, you have a user and the used, an ***r and the ***d.

Likemiera686138and 1 more… · Jump to discussion