First let me say that my fetish is ABDL.

I guess I'm what they call a "switch". If I'm the dominant one, I like to be gentle and caring but still in control. If I'm the sub, I like to be completely and cruelly dominated, insulted, humiliated, etc.

I'm definitely much more of a "DL" than an "AB". My fetish is really more along the lines of "***ness". I'm definitely turned on by a girl in diapers, but even more so if she can't change them herself and needs me to do that for her.

Desires and Fantasies
I'm looking for a girl who likes to wear diapers, wet the bed, wet her pants, have "big" accidents, let me change her diapers for her, etc. This is negotiable, eg if you're OK with *** but not "solid waste" that's fine.

I also want her to be OK knowing that I'm wearing a diaper. If she doesn't want to change me that's fine, but I would like it from time to time.

Also, if there's a girl who actually has a genuine medical condition and HAS to wear diapers, ie can't "turn it off", I'm fine with that too.

I'm also low key into cathing, ene mas, wheelchairs, etc.