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BDSM without feelings?
Are you able to addict yourself, to be used, live out your fantasies or sexual desires without being involved emotionally?
Ok, if it´s a ‘normal’ threesome, I don't have any problem to enjoy it without deeper emotions. But if it concerns a Dom/sub connection for example, where a lot of confidence and trust is necessary, I can´t do it without feelings involved… or better; I won´t do it.
What´s your opinion?
Ok, if it´s a ‘normal’ threesome, I don't have any problem to enjoy it without deeper emotions. But if it concerns a Dom/sub connection for example, where a lot of confidence and trust is necessary, I can´t do it without feelings involved… or better; I won´t do it.
What´s your opinion?
LikeDavide-7057, jackowild, Kymiand 6 more… · 12 Replies
Kymi it must be possible otherwise professional Dominatrixes would go out of business, whether its advisable outside such an exchange is a different matter it must be possible otherwise professional Dominatrixes would go out of business, whether its advisable outside such an exchange is a different matter
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· 30.01.2021 15:11:08
Jemedonne Bonjour!Je pense qu'au début d une relation,la méfiance est là,que les sentiments comme confiance,complicité,émotion,amitié,savoir tenir son rôle,et pour un(e) soumis(e) l amour peut et doit s installer pour appartenir à son Maitre ou sa Maitresse.Quoi de plus beau qu'un soumis amoureux de sa Maitresse,aussi bien pour lui que pour elle... Bonjour!Je pense qu'au début d une relation,la méfiance est là,que les sentiments comme confiance,complicité,émotion,amitié,savoir tenir son rôle,et pour un(e) soumis(e) l amour peut et doit s installer pour appartenir à son Maitre ou sa Maitresse.Quoi de plus beau qu'un soumis amoureux de sa Maitresse,aussi bien pour lui que pour elle...
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· 30.01.2021 14:28:09
Joker50 Further to my earlier reply and the woman I referred to; we had built a short but on line model of what may happen when we met. Almost out of the blue she travelled to Manchester to meet. We went to a bar for a drink and got to know each other a little and discussed our on line mails. Having Read more… established that we were intrigued enough to go further, we did a little shopping and then went back to her room. At no point had there been any mention of toys and so when I walked in and saw all the things she had brought with her I was taken aback. She let me strip her and then pointed at the toys and said, 'You can use any of those in or on me, I have two weeks before any else will see me naked. I don't care how you use me but, you have all night, make me scream.' I was uncertain that the person I had just met was the person I had met on line but, her completely dead attitude to being used, allowed me to let go of any constraints I had and led to a very early morning scramble for a clean shirt on the way back to work and one semi wrecked hotel room.
I received a text a few hours later, 'thank you for last night/this morning, I got what I always wanted, complete humiliation and abuse at the hands of someone who is basically a stranger. Next time I am using the strap on in your ass.'
Nowadays she is a friend and we have a had a few other sessions along those lines but never with the simple freeing of constraints and care of that first meeting. But we talk about it and laugh about it but we both know it will never be like that again and hasn't been.
So yes it is possible to do this without connection and she still does but, it would take a very disdainful attitude from a woman to get me back there again.
PS the strap on was fun
I received a text a few hours later, 'thank you for last night/this morning, I got what I always wanted, complete humiliation and abuse at the hands of someone who is basically a stranger. Next time I am using the strap on in your ass.'
Nowadays she is a friend and we have a had a few other sessions along those lines but never with the simple freeing of constraints and care of that first meeting. But we talk about it and laugh about it but we both know it will never be like that again and hasn't been.
So yes it is possible to do this without connection and she still does but, it would take a very disdainful attitude from a woman to get me back there again.
PS the strap on was fun
LikeRobustlove, Cumwhore310, chezka
· 10.08.2017 8:53:26
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BDSM = sex?
I was chatting to some friends the other day, and it got pretty heated when it came to whether BDSM is always equal to sex. What's your opinion? Do you separate sex and session, or are you more a 'no BDSM without sex' kind of person?
Likeserenaa, Joker50, Robustloveand 1 more… · 13 Replies
Gawain My Self-Flagellation Isn't particularly sexual for me. I get the impression that Masochistic activities work by Sexual Sublimation for many people, just as they did in the Middle Ages. To me, many people on Fet actually seem prudish and repressed. My Self-Flagellation Isn't particularly sexual for me. I get the impression that Masochistic activities work by Sexual Sublimation for many people, just as they did in the Middle Ages. To me, many people on Fet actually seem prudish and repressed.
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· 15.12.2017 15:36:41
VictoriaBlisse Definitely! We're all unique and should celebrate that. Not seek to pigeon hole people. Definitely! We're all unique and should celebrate that. Not seek to pigeon hole people.
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16.11.2017 10:28:17
sleazykink I agree. Sexuality is a wide and varied spectrum as wide as it is colourful and we are too easily led into putting people into pigeon holes. What pleases one person or satisfies another is vast. Sites such as this opening up discussion between us allows us to find what common ground we have with Read more… another to build that pleasure on. I prefer play to lead to orgasm but have also been deprived of it and found that extremely erotic too. Sometimes that lengthy deprivation has built a closer bond than just shooting a load would create.
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· 16.11.2017 1:07:25
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D/s contract
Hi! I'm in my first D/s relationship, and we've been talking loosely about whether we should write up a contract or not...
I'd love to get some advice on this. When is it a good time for a contract? What should be in it? Anything in particular we should keep in mind?
I'd love to get some advice on this. When is it a good time for a contract? What should be in it? Anything in particular we should keep in mind?
Theedge-9760 Have a contract, it will protect both of you should it ever break down. The Police are now empowered to issue Domestic Violence Protection Orders. If either one of you leaves a mark on the other it WILL get messy. I know. Have a contract, it will protect both of you should it ever break down. The Police are now empowered to issue Domestic Violence Protection Orders. If either one of you leaves a mark on the other it WILL get messy. I know.
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· 30.04.2017 21:14:39
KaylaLords A contract can be as formal as you like - SubmissiveGuide.com has a few great examples on their site if you want it to be written. Contracts aren't a requirement, but if you are going to use one, I've found they're good at the beginning of a relationship or when you're making a transition to Read more… something new (new dynamic, new rules, etc.).
For ideas of what to include in it, I'd suggest:
What rules, tasks, rituals will be in place . What the consequences will be for a broken rule or bad behavior (assuming you have some discipline aspect to your relationship). What the Dominant will and won't do. What the submissive will and won't do. Any special protocols - titles to be used, ways to address each other, when and how you'll communicate with each other (open communication is best in my opinion but in high protocol dynamics, a formal method may work best). Hard and soft limits could also be included. Whatever you put in it, know that you can and should be able to renegotiate any aspect of it. You may want to include when you'll formally review the contract (every month? every few months? as needed?).
I don't think every D/s relationship needs or has to have a contract but they can be really helpful for making sure you both know exactly what you're agreeing to, what you want, what you don't want, and what the rules and expectations are for both of you.
For ideas of what to include in it, I'd suggest:
What rules, tasks, rituals will be in place . What the consequences will be for a broken rule or bad behavior (assuming you have some discipline aspect to your relationship). What the Dominant will and won't do. What the submissive will and won't do. Any special protocols - titles to be used, ways to address each other, when and how you'll communicate with each other (open communication is best in my opinion but in high protocol dynamics, a formal method may work best). Hard and soft limits could also be included. Whatever you put in it, know that you can and should be able to renegotiate any aspect of it. You may want to include when you'll formally review the contract (every month? every few months? as needed?).
I don't think every D/s relationship needs or has to have a contract but they can be really helpful for making sure you both know exactly what you're agreeing to, what you want, what you don't want, and what the rules and expectations are for both of you.
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· 20.04.2017 16:57:46
amare_funem It depends on how far you are into the relationship .
I would suggest a contract is potentially a good idea but you will both need to work out what you are looking for so this can be included and then the usual safewords etc. It depends on how far you are into the relationship .
I would suggest a contract is potentially a good idea but you will both need to work out what you are looking for so this can be included and then the usual safewords etc.
I would suggest a contract is potentially a good idea but you will both need to work out what you are looking for so this can be included and then the usual safewords etc. It depends on how far you are into the relationship .
I would suggest a contract is potentially a good idea but you will both need to work out what you are looking for so this can be included and then the usual safewords etc.
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· 06.04.2017 12:05:50
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