Tall tattooed rugby type with strong “probably owns a podcast mic” energy, unfortunately.

Not your usual FET Fake Dom (aka DangerDom, Predator, etc). Very kink aware, educated and experienced in impact techniques and safe play. You can find me on FL and communicate with my previous and long term play partners.

Pleasure Dom leaning but with a heavy emphasis on communication, consent and not acting like a victorian headmaster… although I can be persuaded to be a bit more firm.

Kinky, curious and occasionally far too emotionally available for my own good.

After 23 years of faithful monogamy I now subscribe more to the concept of relationship anarchy than monogamy and traditional relationship escalation.

That said, I’m far more interested in chemistry, laughter and intelligent conversation than collecting dynamics like Pokémon cards.

Apparently funny, apparently wholesome, frequently found overcommitting myself socially like an emotional support Labrador.

I’ve been told I’m a true gent and also an absolute deviant, which honestly feels fairly accurate.

My pleasure is very much in yours. Safety, trust and care within dynamics will always come first.

Don’t be weird in my DMs and we will probably get on well.

Single/separated dad, can accommodate.

Profile update August ‘26. Find me on FL too.

When it comes to kink, I enjoy fulfilling your fantasies in safe and controlled ways. I’m very respectful of boundaries and expect you to be the same. Consent and boundaries always discussed beforehand.
I don’t play with poo, *** or anything that gets my name on a register. No permanent marks. Consent and safe sex is sexy.
If you have no boundaries, you’re not safe so I’m not your guy. My style is unique combination of Daddy/Pleasure Dom, Hard Dom… I’ll do terrible things to you but you’ll be begging me to do them.