Personal details

Gender TV
Age 52
Status Single
Zodiac signs Aries

About me

I’m looking for:

  • BDSM Lovers
  • Kinky Dates
  • NSA (no strings...)
  • LTR (relationship)

Description

Guy who loves being a girl and will play servant to any master or mistress - or we can just cuddle. There are almost no limits to my "bucket list"

Fantasies

I am about as sub as it is possible to be. I even find it hard to say "no" these days. I especially love being dressed up and restrained and being forced to do whatever is wanted of me

My roles & archetype

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Fimus
icon-wio Fimus has updated their profile description
Guy who loves being a girl and will play servant to any master or mistress - or we can just cuddle. There are almost no limits to my "bucket list"
Fimus
icon-wio Fimus has updated their desires and fantasies info
I am about as sub as it is possible to be. I even find it hard to say "no" these days. I especially love being dressed up and restrained and being forced to do whatever is wanted of me
Fimus
icon-wio Fimus wrote something in the forum
BDSM Archetypes Treasure Hunt!

Have you ever felt "used"?

Fimus
icon-wio Fimus has updated their profile description
Will update properly soon
Fimus
icon-wio Fimus wrote something in the forum
New Dom, Experienced Sub

I can (as a sub) make this very simple for you. Ask her what her hard limits are. Make sure that you never ever violate those limits and then literally do whatever turns YOU on. That is what a sub wants - to serve

Fimus
icon-wio Fimus wrote something in the forum
Sub domme contracts

In this context a contract is not a legal document, but can often be far more important. Sub/domme relationships require a huge amount of trust. A contract is way to make sure that both sides know how far they are allowed to go (and where/how to push the limits) in advance. I take a very dim view Read more… of dommes who will not respect pre-agreed limits

Likeharoldcecilgeorge · Jump to discussion
Fimus
icon-wio Fimus wrote something in the forum
BDSM Archetypes Treasure Hunt!

That is archetypal of you ;)

LikeBigPolly, serenaa · Jump to discussion
Fimus
icon-wio Fimus created a topic in Online Munch
Comfortable In My Skin
Anyone simply happy with who they are?
Release your inner "happy"
Tell us why you are so content
LikeBigPolly, Queenie63, Pearlyforyou · 10 Replies
QueenShorty85
QueenShorty85 This is a concept that took me over 25 years to achieve, Im very seldomly have feeling much self doubt, but the journey was an epic one let me assure you. I was born a white male in Bakersfield cali to a family that's roots and ignorance. I daily at one point not long after puberty held such hate Read more… for feeling forced to be what's normal . Rage soon followed this is usually a super heated arguement or ful on fight. I craved those, just to feel pain I felt I deserved for my not regular thoughts. Being different is like an adventure to a new place. If you cant be categorized, stereotyped , easily explained you make yourself a target. Myself I'm not a cookie cutter type . When I finally searched deep within and embraced my transgender nature I felt the rage dissipate only them. I started my transition going overly hard to be super fem and being only with men I would never leave home before makeup was applied. I was the ultimate girlie girl. This wasnt my style really I trialed and eroded till I reached my present self. Im mtf ts girl that is white acting like a nigga all hood girl like. I dont try to be anymore girl than boy or Visa versa. I love my penis and all that comes with it ,but my breast I'm not busty which I'm wanting to be. The busty boobs make the fem torso so much more sexy
I will never have surgery to remove my dick. I like my breast and the soft hairless feel of my body. I truly act ike a butch ass lesbian who sleeps with either sex. I dress like urban mixed with a little geek squad twistish I will tell you this just let me lay down and fix this problem?
Like · 02.10.2018 23:47:06
eyemblacksheep
eyemblacksheep I don't find myself attractive.
But that's OK.
I remember at an event talking with a young Lady I'd filmed with.
I'm aging, a little overweight (I've since lost a little), balding and not conventionally attractive.
She was laughing - and I'm like - hey, I'm not self-negging here.
That, my point Read more… is.
All these things perceived as negatives... and nobody *really* cares.
A lot within the kink scene I've found quite liberal and hedonistic that it's more about your attitude than your looks.
Of course - it doesn't always feel like that and sometimes if I'm feeling... overlooked... then I don't feel I'm desirable. But, I also know when I'm in a good mindset (as I am now) whereas I'm envious towards others there's others envious towards me.
Social awkwardness is quite rife within kink scenes. If you turn up to things a little introverted or nervous, there's others in the same boat.
I was talking to a good friend of mine the other week - she is active on both the kink scene and the swinger scene.
She says swingers, generally, are "just normal people who like sex"
But, on the kink scene a lot of people are all a little kooky, odd, off-beat, a little bit different.
So, while I'm also keen to avoid painting things as some form of utopia (cos it's fucking not...) there's certain places where you feel you fall short... actually isn't the case.
And on things you have control over and can change... well... jobs a good 'un
am i happy?
I'd say.... content enough...
LikeBigPolly, MissTillysue · 26.09.2018 10:41:59
eyemblacksheep
eyemblacksheep "most girls prefer...."
well, ok - try appealing to women then ;) "most girls prefer...."
well, ok - try appealing to women then ;)
LikeBigPolly · 26.09.2018 8:03:27
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Fimus
icon-wio Fimus wrote something in the forum
Kinkster & fetishist relationship advice

He should count his lucky stars that he has you! 99% of us want someone who will accommodate our desires and do not get it!

LikeDeadManWalking · Jump to discussion
Fimus
icon-wio Fimus has updated their profile description
Getting old and getting bored

"Professional" Git
Fimus
icon-wio Fimus wrote something in the forum
BDSM Archetypes Treasure Hunt!

I like the latest. It fits my "taste"

Fimus
icon-wio Fimus created a topic in Technical Stuff
Stuff That Does Not Fit Into Any Category
About 8/10 things I want to say does not fit into any of the "standard" categories. Any chance of a "Miscellaneous" category?
Fimus
Fimus The "bleeding obvious" missing category is "kinks other than BDSM"! The "bleeding obvious" missing category is "kinks other than BDSM"!
Like · 24.09.2018 21:34:58
VictoriaBlisse
VictoriaBlisse It's actually a comment on habits of people. People will not spend time looking for the relevant category and will just plump for 'misc' which then means more moderation for us moderators, moving things to where they belong.
If there are areas we're not covering with our existing forums, let us know. If you think categories need different descriptors to make it easier to decide where to put what, that's another thing we can definitely do. It's actually a comment on habits of people. People will not spend time looking for the relevant category and will just plump for 'misc' which then means more moderation for us moderators, moving things to where they belong.
If there are areas we're not covering with our existing forums, let us know. If you think categories need different descriptors to make it easier to decide where to put what, that's another thing we can definitely do.
Like · 24.09.2018 20:58:35
Carnelian2
Carnelian2 There are all sorts here. Maybe, I can help?
We are all unique, yet there are always others that have similar experiences 🙏 There are all sorts here. Maybe, I can help?
We are all unique, yet there are always others that have similar experiences 🙏
Like · 24.09.2018 8:43:12
Fimus
icon-wio Fimus wrote something in the forum
BDSM Archetypes Treasure Hunt!

I WAS looking in all the right places and then I saw your breasts and kinda forgot who I am or why I am here

LikeKittyKat_ANR · Jump to discussion
Fimus
icon-wio Fimus wrote something in the forum
Is it me or the rope

Taking away my control is my thing, so tie me or bind me so I have no choice but to submit!

Fimus
icon-wio Fimus found their first BDSM archetype!