Im a pretty normal girl on the outside, many would be surprised at what goes on in my head. I am open to conversations, a pretty open book!

I value honesty and respect! this is core in the dom/sub dynamic and i can generally tell within the first couple days talking how to assess this. the search for the right partner particularly in this dynamic is not easy (for both parties). I need a particular dom who knows how to handle my bratty side as I am a independent woman but in the bedroom or alone, I generally crave for him to take control and push my vulnerabilities. I am shy, so needing someone who can bring out my inner sub with ease. I am not looking for TPE! if this is what you are wanting please do not ask.

I do have 3 kids so don't expect a model body or anything after I had to have surgery. though after the divorce I want to make it a fresh start and start to take care of myself for once after all these years. don't worry I have always had my curves even when I was 130. I also have hearing aids (i function just fine unless you have a thick accent) so if you are uncomfortable with that please disregard my profile (but hey, it'd make it easier for sensory deprivation play right?) 😊

Im NOT into anything involving *** that results in *** or permanent marks or hardcore ***, age play, toilet play, incest.

Shibari can be incredibly sensual and is the most recent interest I have found!

Best to describe me so far as I know myself: A break me bratty masochist sub.

looking for ages 36-48 yrs old ideally. willing to go a couple years over/under if we click right!

if you ask me to use ***. im not going to. I don't use that. I use only *** outside this chat and that's generally to verify you are who you are.

= Results from bdsmtest.org =
100% Rope bunny
99% Submissive
79% Brat
72% Vanilla
68% Experimentalist
53% Non-monogamist
43% Masochist
35% Voyeur
34% Primal (Prey)
31% Exhibitionist
30% Slave
19% Switch
10% Degradee
5% Pet
0% Ageplayer
0% Boy/Girl

no ***, toilet play, ***, furry, incest