I'm vamp im 39 from Chester le street durham I'm an ex wrestler and a computer tech by trade I'm disabled don't work I use a power chair alot of the time I like I love everything to with computers I'm a gamer PC and console I love to sing and write and read short stories and write short stories I'm married in a poly open relationship I have 3 kids and I am also seeking a dominant female open minded into bdsm

What type of mistress do I seek: lifestyle mistress if you are pro or findomme then I am not the one

Pronouns one/they/them I am non binary

In person session meet ups only, no transactions online of any kind I am seeking lifestyle

Roll : sub but in the presence of my potential mistress only

I am seeking a long term d/s relationship only I am married but in an open relationship

What I bring to the table: I am a computer tech by trade can offer my services I am disabled and use a wheelchair but what ever I can do I will do

What am I seeking: a mistress who believes in a two way street

Fetishs: first I am here to serve you and your fetishs

I believe in open honestly
I like to be tied up and lighters lit near my cock and balls
I like lighters rubbed on my nipples
And lit near or meby a burn
I like to be tied up naked or just naked with flammable liquids like lighter fluid or bbq lighting fluid or bbq jell etc on me and my mistress with the means if she wanted (in the spirit of role play) a lighter a zippo or a match threatening she will set me on fire if I don't do a task or I cum before permission or tied up and clothed and flammable objects used like paper firelighters etc or meby a firework tied to my cock and told if I dont do a task or cum too soon my mistress will light the fuse or have flammable objects placed in my ass like bottles of lighter fluid or long reach candle lighters

Or tied to a chair and fires build under me or tied to a bed and fires built under my balls and cock

Not to be burned but to be made think in play I could be or will be it's having my mind played with and other things used as props it's fear also there for the pleasure of my mistress

Fetish list

Primary Fantasy
i enjoy RISK play being tied up my MISTRESS with a knife or covered in something flammable and my MISTRESS with a lighter
Other Fetish Interests
SO MY MAIN FETISHS
RISK WITH PLAY FIRE - RISK play with with fire element including lighters,matches,lighter
fluid,fire lighters,BBQ lighting jell,BBQ lighting fluid, for extreme play petrol,diesel,kerosene and fireworks so light lighters near my body and or cover or put a little bit of flammable substance on my body threaten with a lighter or matches or fireworks tied or saran wrapped to my cock and a MISTRESS with a lighter sounds good to me
RISK PLAY OTHER - RISK play with knifes guns etc real or airsoft I enjoy a MISTRESS with a knife threatening to cut me up I'd love to try RISK play with a handgun but as I'm in the UK I'd settle for airsoft
RISK PLAY CASTRATION - this can involve a fire element as above or a knife, meat cleaver,scissors or garden sheers or just talk of being castrated to me I found I enjoy this
ANEL - I enjoy RISK play in this way also with candle lighters up my ass fucked with them or held there as a part of other RISK play or fireworks up my ass and my MISTRESS with a lighter or normal ANEL with vibrators or ANEL beads or we can try other objects
EDGING - this is something I also enjoy with RISK play be it with fire or a knife being wanked or a blowjob till I'm edged closer and threatened not to cum
MASTURBATION CONTROL - being told not to masturbate on threat of castration or being set in fire
WRAPPING - With duct tape or saran wrap or others things
NIPPLE PLAY - like lighters being rubbed on then don't mind burns one thing I really enjoy is lube on my nipples and rubbed with a lighter or nipples torture like squeezing them pulling them or other things I'd like to explore
PAIN PLAY - Burns from lighters whips riding crops and like to explore my limits
CBT - Burns from lighters flammable substances poured on them slapped balls squeezing riding crops whips I'd like to explore this more
BONDAGE - I enjoy being tied up it can also work with my other FETISHS to be helpless in fear is a big turn on for me
LATEX GLOVES - I enjoy the feeling of them over my cock and body and seeing a MISTRESS wear them in fear play enhances everything for me because its like no finger prints makes it real
RISK PLAY MURDER ROLE-PLAY - just what it says an extreme mind fuck with fear make me think I will die with fire etc
CHASTITY - being locked up for my MISTRESS only she can let me out
PSYCHOLOGICAL EDGE PLAY - mindfucks people telling me how and why they would set me on fire or knife play or similar
FETISHS I WANT TO TRY
OUTDOOR PLAY - Would love to RISK play outside and explorer other FETISHS

Limits

Blood play
Age play
Animals
Needles
Scat
Anything to do with piss
Aspyxiation
Cum or CEI
Ass
Pussy licking
Playing with males
Toilet play
Human toilet
Chastity

And would like the choice to edit as I explore



Also safe words is a must

Limits

Blood play
Age play
Animals
Needles
Scat
Anything to do with piss
Aspyxiation
Cum or CEI
Ass
Pussy licking
Playing with males
Toilet play
Human toilet
Chastity

And would like the choice to edit as I explore



Also safe words is a must