Straight male hoping for a kinky LTR but will grudgingly accept kinky fun.

I tend to be more dom, I like to collar a younger woman and take care of her... but I have a sub side a chunk of the time that doesn't need to be explored in my lifetime but is there if my partner needs to explore it.

NO WAY:
Sc@t
blades
heavy bl00d

Likely No:
Me not having control of my arms or tight spaces, excessive whipping (giving mostly)