I am going to assume you have discussed this with her and not just assuming she needs an allowance or anything of that sort

Once the video is released*

They is definitely a market for that, seems obvious but a word of caution. Once’s biro is released you lose control of it. I can’t think of anything worse than it coming back into your life through your friends or god forbid any of your children finding out about it

I ended a dynamic last year as the sub. I can’t say for your doms but it was a hard choice and time for me too. It was due to distance and furthering my career which was more difficult because it wasn’t originally what I wanted, and I make the mistake of lingering and still talking to my sub so Read more… both of us was both unable to move on properly. I have ended it entirely now and it’s hard but it’s important to remember that it’s ended because it wasn’t right and you can still find a better Dom who is correct for you

Honestly the best way to get rid of jealousy, basically don’t allow things they will invoke it. I can understand why you agreed but it would be healthier to say to no if you didn’t want it to happen and then explain to her why

I am 25 and a Dom but I did try being a sub when I first got started. I think it’s important to try both as it also gives you a good perspective on both sides aswell backing you a better Dom if that is what you choose

If you are only interested in a relationship beyond friendship then it may be best to move on. If I was you and I wanted more or nothing, I would inform her that I will be moving on and that if she wants to have more she needs to decide what she wants.

Personally to me it seems they is not a lot you aren’t doing.
When I first read this I was expecting you to say you have set rules and that it is but after reading it it does seem like you are putting in the effort.
Your sub on the other hand gives of the impression that he isn’t putting in much Read more… effort. You have asked him why he is bored and the reply “guna think about it” seems a bit lacklustre to me.
He is complaining about something but they says he doesn’t really know what he is complaining about.
Before you can improve his boredom he needs to give you a more detailed answer on ways he thinks you can improve the relationship, just because you’re the domme doesn’t mean you’re input is the only input.

I’ve had similar, its the smaller amounts that are usually most dangerous though

I am glad that you also mentioned that Dom/mes can also fall for such behaviour aswell as it often forgotten. I agree with everything you said and it’s usually the newer people in the community who are eager for experience and ignore red flags