Me - I am a regular grumpy old man , who has a bucket load of kinks on the side.

I have some D/s experience both virtual and in RL. But this is a quest of continued learning and education, I am hopeful I will find a special someone to get lost on the journey with me.

My view regarding a D/s relationship is - that it is exactly that - a real relationship , all be it a relationship that has beautiful kinks attached. So for me the relationship must come first. A Sub cannot offer submission if she does not know and trust who she is submitting to.

I have been told my style tends to be more a Pleasure Dom, Care giver with hints of Daddy ... although i can wield a paddle like a light-saber.

I hope as well as maybe finding the one - I would just like to make connections and friendships.

Lastly never underestimate the power of a Chocolate Hobnob ...

*** .... I can't stand the stuff ...