Sorry for potentially long writing that you are about to experience, but I hope you enjoy the reading.

About myself: I’m a happy-go-lucky, pun-loving nerd who’s usually a bit shy at first, but opens up if we click. I tend to be a bit more of a homebody. I game a lot (mainly fighting games, even though I’m terrible at them), love trying new foods, and have been trying to dive into programming lately. I also really like listening to all kinds of music (currently enjoying the deltarune OST), so if you have any suggestions, pass them over! As for outdoors, I’m always down for most things, especially for swimming (which I also somehow suck at). I've also been considering getting into hiking lately, so give me those tips and tricks too if you have any. I currently live in the southern Inland Empire and can travel a bit if needed (most of SoCal is in reach for me). That being said, I can’t host, just a heads-up. As for kink stuff, I do consider myself a sub-leaning switch. So I am open to switching or domming, but I definitely have a strong preference towards being a sub.

What/who am I looking for: For starters, I’m bi, so I'm open to talking with people of any gender or sex. I think my only real requirement is that you're not terribly unhygienic. I’m not actively seeking a serious relationship right now. I'm mostly interested in friends, FWB, or play partners. Someone to hopefully talk about, and maybe even explore kinks with. It's always nice to have conversations about this stuff with people who have experienced similar feelings. That said, I’d love for any connection to include good casual conversation too. If you’re not into kinks or would just rather not talk about them, but think we’d vibe, message me anyway! I’m totally down to just talk or game. If kink is on the table, I prefer meeting in person once or twice before jumping into anything physical. I'm also open to practice kink in a more friendly relaxed environment if being more spicy doesn't appeal to you (AKA kink for kinks sake). If neither of us can host, I’m open to working out a hotel/motel plan down the line if needed.

Experience: I’m fairly new to kink, so keep that in mind pls! Despite this, I honestly don't care about your experience level either. All you need is some enthusiasm or curiosity. If you are inexperienced like me, awesome we can learn together! If you are more experienced, help me out here please?

Kinks: My main interest is bondage and it's the kink I want to explore most, especially heavier styles. Rope, tape, plastic wrap, and open to exploring more. I don’t own much gear yet, but I’m eager to learn and experiment. I also need to practice my own tying skills, so maybe we can take turns restraining each other. Outside of bondage, I consider myself to be willing to try most kinks at least once. Though if it can be incorporated with bondage, that's even more of a plus. Sex isn’t a requirement as stated earlier, and I’m very open to practicing kink just for kink’s sake. I consider myself curious and experimental, so feel free to ask how I feel about any particular kinks, or more about my limits (I do have BDSMTest results and a kinklist, so you can always ask for those if you want)!

If you made it this far, you're awesome. If you're thinking, “This guy's the worst,” do an awesome backflip. Either way, feel free to message me. I’d love to meet some good people, whatever form that takes. Have an awesome day!

BDSMTest results:
94% Rope bunny
87% Submissive
75% Brat
71% Switch
67% Experimentalist
66% Degradee
64% Masochist
60% Vanilla
54% Rigger
53% Voyeur
49% Dominant
45% Primal (Prey)
43% Exhibitionist
42% Pet
41% Non-monogamist
38% Degrader
29% Brat tamer
26% Owner
23% Primal (Hunter)
22% Master/Mistress
22% Sadist
21% Daddy/Mommy
20% Boy/Girl
18% Slave

Last STD/STI test: 8/20/2026

As stated earlier, I am new to this, so I probably have more limits than the average person. My hard limits that I already know are: ***, urine/watersports, ***, anything illegal, incest, and severe /. I don't know all kinks in existence, so feel free to talk to me about any that aren't here if you wanted to see how I felt about them.