Don't be fooled; I may be confident and assertive in public, but behind closed doors, the obedient submissive side is front and center. Following a Domme's orders and instructions, being objectified, degraded, used and abused is better than any orgasm I could ever have, especially since I've always preferred pleasing my partner before myself. Let's take it to the next kinky level!
Guys should be tied, toyed with, and told what to do, and women need their slut bitches, too!
I'm completely hetero, attracted to females only (sorry, guys!), and no findoms, please. I'm willing to surrender my body and mind, but not my wallet.
Scat, blood, permanent marks, cock sounds, findomme
All of the above for me, especially since I've recently discovered I really enjoy being objectified and degraded (points 2 and 3), and a toy doesn't decide how it gets used (point 1, although us human toys do get to establish our hard and soft limits).
What turns me on the most is how happy my obedience makes Her.