Poly and open. Connection-led, curious, and comfortable with who I am. I value chemistry, presence, and things unfolding at a good pace. Switch by nature, with a pleasure-focused Dom lean once trust is there. Consent, communication, and mutual enjoyment are baseline for me. Health-conscious and here for something that feels good, easy, and real.
Usually just a clean up fee.
I think anytime anyone goes to use broad brush strokes in the kink community you run the very real risk of creating prejudice and judgement.
If two consenting adults enjoy something and nobody is doing anything illegal. Carry on - someone somewhere will like it