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Gender Man
Age 35
Status Single
Height 179cm
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Black
Hair length Middle
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Zodiac sign Pisces
Glasses
Smoker

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I can’t see spanks - send a message instead

Lifestyle Dom with a sadistic streak and masters degree in aftercare. I train, tame and cane kittens.

Charming, handsome, dominant and infinitely more interesting than the guy you're currently talking to that's telling you he's really interesting.

Hardcore or go home.

You have that one sentence that drives you wild, don't you? That magic set of words; sometimes even just one or two words that as soon as you hear makes you super submissive, makes you bite your lip, heart races, eyes close, makes you feel weak - doesn't it? I'm going to find out what it is. I'm going to whisper it in your ear.

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Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Sefton with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!

Harderplay
icon-wio Harderplay has bought a Premium-membership!
  • 08.04.2024 21:50:44
  • Male (35)
  • Sefton
  • Single
Harderplay
icon-wio Harderplay picked up the birthday gift
  • 14.03.2024 11:12:17
  • Male (35)
  • Sefton
  • Single
Harderplay
icon-wio Harderplay posted a status update
  • 29.06.2023 17:26:55
  • Male (35)
  • Sefton
  • Single
I’m in the mood to answer a few kink questions tonight. Are you new to kink? What can I
(from a male Dom / masters POV) help you with?

Feel free to write below or send me an anon message.

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Harderplay
icon-wio Harderplay posted a status update
  • 21.05.2023 18:53:51
  • Male (35)
  • Sefton
  • Single
I keep seeing stupid people suspend (usually newer) play partners by the wrists with their full weight lifted. It’s really a surefire way to create permanent nerve damage that will cause lifelong issues, or temporary damage at best. Doms / tops should know better, subs / bottoms / rope bunnies Read more… please don’t let someone tell you it’s fine. Wrists aren’t built to support it. I love dangerous play, but this is a lack of awareness and education. With the right knowledge, feet can pretty safely be suspended, wrists can’t.
LikeRavenD1
Harderplay
icon-wio Harderplay picked up the birthday gift
  • 14.03.2023 11:08:20
  • Male (35)
  • Sefton
  • Single
Harderplay
icon-wio Harderplay wrote something in the forum
  • 03.02.2023 2:17:37
  • Male (35)
  • Sefton
  • Single
Advice needed on 24/7

The higher the protocol the harder to sustain. A 24/7 person + a 24/7 person does not necessarily make a good healthy dynamic with longevity. Difficult yes. Impossible no. Making it sustain requires a lot of energy and effort on both parts. If you have a massive part of your social life that is Read more… vanilla it can look problematic to outsiders. Typically after 6 months or it’ll settle into something that works or breaks. I prefer to start 24/7 than escalate to it - whether that’s better or not who knows.

Harderplay
icon-wio Harderplay has uploaded a new photo
  • 24.01.2023 23:40:05
  • Male (35)
  • Sefton
  • Single
  • Harderplay
Harderplay
icon-wio Harderplay wrote something about themself
  • 11.12.2022 1:38:49
  • Male (35)
  • Sefton
  • Single
I can’t see spanks - send a message instead

Lifestyle Dom with a sadistic streak and masters degree in aftercare. I train, tame and cane kittens.

Charming, handsome, dominant and infinitely more interesting than the guy you're currently talking to that's telling you he's really Read more… interesting.

Hardcore or go home.

You have that one sentence that drives you wild, don't you? That magic set of words; sometimes even just one or two words that as soon as you hear makes you super submissive, makes you bite your lip, heart races, eyes close, makes you feel weak - doesn't it? I'm going to find out what it is. I'm going to whisper it in your ear.
Harderplay
icon-wio Harderplay posted a status update
  • 15.10.2022 2:06:33
  • Male (35)
  • Sefton
  • Single
Honestly I don’t know why you can’t filter out dominant people from spanks. Weird they just show incompatible people. You can filter everything else but the most important thing.
Likemiaahauah, xen_, katevans21
Harderplay
icon-wio Harderplay posted a status update
  • 15.09.2022 8:56:47
  • Male (35)
  • Sefton
  • Single
I always have one app notification on this when i check everything is read etc., no
Outstanding photo requests - anyone know what’s causing it?
Harderplay
icon-wio Harderplay wrote something in the forum
  • 06.07.2022 13:29:32
  • Male (35)
  • Sefton
  • Single
New sub….is my dom asking too much of me?

Your instinct is telling you something - listen to it. The internet is so very full of aspirational doms, easy to lie about experience. As far as normal behaviour, normal is subjective. But if you have doubts, or isn’t fulfilling your needs as a sub it’s probably not going to get better but worse.

LikeAranhis, N1kas, kala35and 1 more… · Jump to discussion
Harderplay
icon-wio Harderplay posted a status update
  • 25.06.2022 5:04:52
  • Male (35)
  • Sefton
  • Single
Appalled with the U.S Supreme Court and those who pushed and pushed on it. Why does America hate women so much? Handmaid’s tale shit. RBG will be turning in her grave.
Likenymphhhvirgin, HandleMe103, Sail_gg
Harderplay
icon-wio Harderplay wrote something in the forum
  • 16.06.2022 17:35:49
  • Male (35)
  • Sefton
  • Single
Why I've Concluded There are No Real Men On Fet

😂😂😂😂 wonderful. (From a fake bot man)

Harderplay
icon-wio Harderplay wrote something in the forum
  • 29.05.2022 12:11:37
  • Male (35)
  • Sefton
  • Single
Major sub drop

Sub drop is the immediate crashing of endorphins after play, typically lasts 1-5 hours. Hope you get your sparkle back.

Likeroma592, kala35 · Jump to discussion
Harderplay
icon-wio Harderplay picked up the birthday gift
  • 14.03.2022 11:16:16
  • Male (35)
  • Sefton
  • Single

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