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***:harley.dharm

Mid-30s male Dominant in Tampa. Experienced but always learning, focused on building trust and connection before play.

Kinks: Power exchange, discipline, impact (hands, paddles, floggers), bondage, orgasm control, service-oriented submission, light pet play, and sensual sadism (teasing ***/pleasure). Into mental domination too—mind games, rules, protocols.

Personality: Calm, attentive, sarcastic humor, protective. Outside lifestyle: Outdoor adventures, fitness, music, and good food.

Seeking: Submissive women (with sub dynamics) for ongoing exploration—casual scenes, mentoring, or potential TPE if compatible. Huge emphasis on negotiation, check-ins, and aftercare. STI transparency mandatory.

Limits: No kids, ***s, illegal stuff, edge play without deep discussion.

If you're serious about kink and value clear communication, say hi—tell me your role and one fantasy you'd love to discuss.

***s or ***
*** play, cutting, needles, or permanent marks/scarring
heavy bathroom play
Non-consensual play (even in fantasy/roleplay without prior negotiation)
Illegal activities
Ignoring safewords or boundaries