I am an intelligent, fun, open minded submissive, not totally new to the BDSM scene but I still have a lot to learn. I’ve enjoyed exploring BDSM both with online and in-person partners, and know that I need to have this dynamic in my life. I’m tall, I’m fit but curvy, and may be slow to share everything until trust is there. Hesitant to share pictures publicly but happy to share once we’ve connected.

I’m looking for others wanting to explore D/s further, either through online chat and play or in person if it develops into that. I’m not looking for a quick hookup. I believe there has to be a connection mentally before physically. I am a submissive, but that doesn’t mean I’m your submissive. I’m in a vanilla marriage for a while longer, so looking for someone in a similar spot or willing to be discrete.

Some of my interests- ***, bondage, anal, roleplay, medical

***, permanent marks, anything illegal