About me, I am feisty, fun, passionate, and always in control. I have a lot on my plate and a lot I am responsible for. I am at a point where I know I need to relinquish some of the tight reigns I have and have some fun. Since I can remember, I have always been highly sexual and not vanilla. I was the kid reading every book on the body and how it worked. In college, I specialized in human sexuality and how the body responds. I have never been married and have no kids; it’s always been about caring for business. I have had a few outstanding men in my life, kind and generous, but sexually I always craved more. None of them could cure my appetite. As I have gotten older, I have realized I am a true sapiosexual and must be stimulated by my mind first. I spent the last five years in a dark and tumultuous relationship, where I became the dominant. While the relationship was toxic, I realized so many of the elements of what I was to him I craved. The ability to put your complete trust in someone and hand the keys over to them with your pleasure opened another door for me that I know I need to explore.

That said, I am not looking to be a doormat or be humiliated. I am not interested in *** that leaves marks or being owned. I have some pretty hard no’s and I am sure to most on here I might be vanilla. I just know I need a strong alpha. I can’t do the hybrid males or I will become the dominant .A need a man who appreciates a woman, who is always a lady, who is intelligent, independent but wants nothing more than to find a man she can submit to and shut my mind off. A man who can be my peace, my quiet place.

No marks
No severe ***
No gagging
No ***
No feet
No fisting anal or vaginal
No ***
No ***
Not interested in woman