I'm a 48yo, disabled man with clinical depression, social anxiety disorder, C-PTSD, and an LGBTQ and woman's rights supporter from Tulsa, OK. I'm looking for friends or something more. I'd love to bond with someone. That could manifest in all sorts of actives or just as simple as hanging out or hugging and cuddling. I'm middle aged, so sex isn't high on my list. I'm a virgin. What I really want is a life companion so I don't have to go on living alone. I'm a closet spanko into erotic spanking. I'd be fine with just valuing your company when that's all you're in the mood for. I don't have a car and can't drive. I love car rides. Being disabled makes my finances very tight. That being said, I can play games, keep you company while you shop, and all sorts of things.

While I'm okay with experimenting with some BDSM, I'm really just a vanilla, closet spanko. I don't want to dominate, be dominated, disrespect/degrade, or be disrespected/degraded. I don't like conflict. I want to avoid causing real harm. I'm more into pleasure rather than punishment. Everything is in full consent. If you're not in the mood, I'm not either. No master/slave stuff. No dick or butt pics. I ABSOLUTELY WON'T DO POO!