I will be kind, I will talk deeply. My wife and I (m. 15 yrs) have just opened things up. we are still deeply in love and attracted to each other, but we’ve stepped into a new realm. we can play and/or date together or separately. We have a kid and jobs.

I sing and (sort of) play drums. I’m not religious, but I don’t judge those who are, unless you’re a misogynist and hateful. a bit of a nerd-lite. I can speak casually, but if you go deep, I’ll dive down with you. About anything; music, art, free-will (or lack of), ***s, science, philosophy, even things I know nothing about. teach me! I relish the mystery of living, and I want to explore it with cool people.

I don’t do trumpists.
I tip well, and am kind to service workers

***, underage, beastiality