In my experience I'd say absolutely! Like with some things your good when you start or you may suck haha but if it's something you like then absolutely practice makes perfect . My advice would be start by thinking about things you like and what kind of dom style you wanna have are you daddy ? An Read more… owner? Which type would you say you are then go exploring from there : )

If confidence is what your looking to give her i think time and working slowly would be your best friend . Of course discussing your wants needs and limits along with her own will also help and should be done , especially since knowing ahead of time can help her transition into dom space . But i Read more… believe time will be a great friend so if she doesn't have the confidence to dress up yet start piece by piece maybe one part if the outfit one session and another in the next the same can be said for toys perhaps start with a gag and move on from there before you know it you'll have her dressed up in the full outfit so to speak haha . Encouragement will also be a big help if you liked something she did or wore let her know say it loud say it proud : ).

I agree with uk_night , it doesnt sound like he was ready for that level of d/s commitment then got uncomfortable once he had it . If you broke a rule granted unintentionally there's room for correction ending the dynamic was his choice instead of choosing the path of punishment or discussion. If Read more… you know you'd do anything for him and he still refuses to continue your dynamic my advice would be to give him space and if you still feel that you want him as your dom return to him at a later date.