Sometimes fantasy is all we have... I want someone who likes her ass being spanked and seeing where that leads... after all when your ass is spanked there is nothing like a cuddle to help dry those tears. So yes I will spank as female ass so long as I can cuddle her afterwards... it can only get Read more… kinkier from there ... so maybe you need someone to spank your ass first....

Sometimes it is when you stop looking that what you want hits you in the face... Offer up a prayer to whoever is listening, the lady will be enough and you may be surprised, no guarantees of course but I got a Bengal kitten come my way and all I did was wish.

I have had many subs with whom I have shared pictures and received them in return. I have never shared a picture with anyone else unless permission has been given .
I think everyone keeps pictures , if only by virtue of keeping the e mail to which it is attached .
But the whole picture is Read more… missing and you don't say how you found out and you should.

Sent you a pm about rimming then saw this. Would love to discuss both with you further.

Further to my earlier reply and the woman I referred to; we had built a short but on line model of what may happen when we met. Almost out of the blue she travelled to Manchester to meet. We went to a bar for a drink and got to know each other a little and discussed our on line mails. Having Read more… established that we were intrigued enough to go further, we did a little shopping and then went back to her room. At no point had there been any mention of toys and so when I walked in and saw all the things she had brought with her I was taken aback. She let me strip her and then pointed at the toys and said, 'You can use any of those in or on me, I have two weeks before any else will see me naked. I don't care how you use me but, you have all night, make me scream.' I was uncertain that the person I had just met was the person I had met on line but, her completely dead attitude to being used, allowed me to let go of any constraints I had and led to a very early morning scramble for a clean shirt on the way back to work and one semi wrecked hotel room.
I received a text a few hours later, 'thank you for last night/this morning, I got what I always wanted, complete humiliation and abuse at the hands of someone who is basically a stranger. Next time I am using the strap on in your ass.'
Nowadays she is a friend and we have a had a few other sessions along those lines but never with the simple freeing of constraints and care of that first meeting. But we talk about it and laugh about it but we both know it will never be like that again and hasn't been.
So yes it is possible to do this without connection and she still does but, it would take a very disdainful attitude from a woman to get me back there again.
PS the strap on was fun