I've been a slow developer, realising and then working out my kinks only later in life. First I realised I was a sub but after discovering and securing my own sub realised the Master within me was awakening. So it seems I am a switch. Unfortunately this is mostly in secret as my family are unaware. So I am mostly looking for those in a similar position, or others who understand what it is like to be trapped as I am, not wanting to hurt those around me.

Im not seeing anyone in the BDSM world at the moment, but looking. Mesage me if this resonates. Quite a lot of interests over quite a wide age range. Gently and safely nurturing younger wannabes is a favourite.

Educated, into the sciences and the arts.

Absolutely everybody who messages will get a polite response. I know that is a bit unusual round here, but hey, let's push the boat right out!

Jonesy666 (a bit devilish...)