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A Hedonist With a Mindset for Depth and Mischief. Intelligent conversation makes me melt faster than a candlelit massage. I'm drama-free, complexity-averse, and driven by curiosity and pleasure in equal measure. If you appreciate wit, mental foreplay, and someone who knows when to listen and when to tease—keep reading.

Seeking a partner-in-crime (or what an english 18th-century romance writer would call “a lover”)—someone sharp, emotionally fluent, and uninhibited enough to explore both spirited conversation and the rich terrain of desire. I'm deeply selective—not because I’m picky, but because I’m intentional. Surface-level is not my playground; I’m here for magnetic chemistry and deep, textured connections. Don't expect from my side a “meeting up just for a quick fix.”

What interests me is mutual discovery: lingering kisses, playful glances, whispered thoughts after midnight, lazy afternoons tangled on a sofa... or maybe adventures that flirt with the edge of the known and the taboo (yes, experienced Dom with a soft spot for roleplays, bondage, edging, protocol, lingerie, toys and other kinks that we can discuss if you feel curious). I'm in an ethical non-monogamy, always grounded in respect, trust, and complete transparency.

Consent is sacred. Safety—emotional, physical, medical—is non-negotiable. If you’re someone who lives intensely, questions deeply, and enjoys delicious chaos with elegance—tap that heart and let’s begin something unforgettable.
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Anxiety management after a session
Hi all. I'm not sure if this has been discussed on a thread previously but here I go. I started a D/s relationship with a sub who is quite involved with her role. She had no previous experience and we are going step by step. Confidence and comunication between is constamt and clear but all the Read more…times we had a session, during the next couple of days she has a kind of emptyness in the transition between the session and her normal life. We try to do a good after care, the next day we keep communicating but the second day after the session is the hardest for her. Has any sub experienced this kind of feelings? How did you manage? Do you think mindfulness could help her in the transition? Thanks to all
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ThreeFacedGemini
ThreeFacedGemini I agree with the others, especially Bunny. I just discovered sub drop myself and she definitely needs something to ground her. Help her get back to herself after a session. But I just wanted to say it sounds like you are doing great, especially making sure she gets aftercare and looking out for your sub ☺️ I agree with the others, especially Bunny. I just discovered sub drop myself and she definitely needs something to ground her. Help her get back to herself after a session. But I just wanted to say it sounds like you are doing great, especially making sure she gets aftercare and looking out for your sub ☺️
Like · 22.12.2025 5:30:43
KrissyRichards
KrissyRichards If she has no pervious experience, she may not have many tools to deal with sub drop. I heavily rely on tools I learned in therapy. The best one for me is a RAIN meditation to process my feelings. Sometimes we just need to lean into our feelings and hold them with compassion before they can pass through us. If she has no pervious experience, she may not have many tools to deal with sub drop. I heavily rely on tools I learned in therapy. The best one for me is a RAIN meditation to process my feelings. Sometimes we just need to lean into our feelings and hold them with compassion before they can pass through us.
Like · 22.12.2025 3:04:46
Jurayy
Jurayy Read up on sub drop
It may not be the exact thing but there are some great tips to deal with these emotions
I have a plushie for my subs that they can use for comfort, as they deal with these feelings
Having talks about it, doing reviews of a scene helps too I founds. Writing down stuff that they Read more… liked or would want to have more of, so it's not completely gone
And having self compassion. It's easier said than done. But these feelings will happen regardless and dealing with them always takes time and energy
Like · 22.12.2025 2:51:42
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A Hedonist With a Mindset for Depth and Mischief. Intelligent conversation makes me melt faster than a candlelit massage. I'm drama-free, complexity-averse, and driven by curiosity and pleasure in equal measure. If you appreciate wit, mental foreplay, and someone who knows when to listen and when Read more… to tease—keep reading.

Seeking a partner-in-crime (or what an english 18th-century romance writer would call “a lover”)—someone sharp, emotionally fluent, and uninhibited enough to explore both spirited conversation and the rich terrain of desire. I'm deeply selective—not because I’m picky, but because I’m intentional. Surface-level is not my playground; I’m here for magnetic chemistry and deep, textured connections. Don't expect from my side a “meeting up just for a quick fix.”

What interests me is mutual discovery: lingering kisses, playful glances, whispered thoughts after midnight, lazy afternoons tangled on a sofa... or maybe adventures that flirt with the edge of the known and the taboo (yes, experienced Dom with a soft spot for roleplays, bondage, edging, protocol, lingerie, toys and other kinks that we can discuss if you feel curious). I'm in an ethical non-monogamy, always grounded in respect, trust, and complete transparency.

Consent is sacred. Safety—emotional, physical, medical—is non-negotiable. If you’re someone who lives intensely, questions deeply, and enjoys delicious chaos with elegance—tap that heart and let’s begin something unforgettable.
CAT/ES/EN/IT
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