Although I am considered an intellectual, I have a great deal of common sense, and I am in tune with body language (obviously that does not mean I exclude any communication, care, understanding, and instinct). I am approachable, and understanding!!!
I believe in SSC and RACK!!!
I have been involved in BDSM for many years. I have experienced being a Bottom to ensure what I already knew… that I am a Top/ Dom. Alongside this I gained insight into the Bottom aspect in order to understand this side of the same coin. I believe these experiences evolved me into being a better Top/ Dom!!! Although as a Top/ Dom or a Bottom/ sub, I have found that you never stop learning, that everyone is different and unique to their personal preferences, wants, desires, fantasies, kinks, limits, and fetishes!!!
I believe either the App is not filtering properly or some have accidentally missed where my profile states that I’m into women… yes I am a lesbian!!! I don’t mind if you’re a guy and you want to chat about the BDSM community or potentially make a friend, but I am not sexually interested in men!!!

*** play, Breath play/ Erotic Asphyxiation, Shit/ Fecal play, Pet play… No judgement for anyone who enjoys these, they’re just not my thing!!!